every time i want to get together with my boyfriend, he cant come over or go somewhere with me. all the time, he calls in last minute to tell me that he cant go out. please tell me whats up with this if you know. thanks in advance
2006-09-30 12:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by Bugalachoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jumping to the conclusion of cheating (like the other answerer did) is one of the worst ways to go. you don't want to accuse him of cheating, that could ruin any trust you two have. just ask him, tell him you would like to go out and wish he'd stop calling off last minute. if he does it again, tell him "fine, then i'll just go out without you." and do just that. grab a girlfriend and go somewhere. don't answer his calls the rest of that day, it'll end up ruining you're day out with your friend. when you talk to him the next day, tell him how much fun you had. maybe he'll take you out next time.
2006-09-30 12:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer I can see that would be meaningful is his. I think its time you sat down with him and talked about it face to face and not over the phone. When you can get him to come over that is. It could be he's married or something else.
2006-09-30 12:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry sweety, but it sounds like my ex.... guess why he ALWAYS stood me up. ..... he was seeing some1 else. I couldnt believe it and I always tried to pretend it was not the reason, but after awhile, u get tired of being humiliated. Thats when U are ready to move on
2006-09-30 12:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like to me only to me but he's either sleeping around on you or he's getting ready to leave you for somebody else if I was you I would watch out
2006-09-30 13:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me he is seeing someone else and getting ready to breakup with you
2006-09-30 12:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lacks respect for you. Do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that?
2006-09-30 12:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heading for a breakup
2006-09-30 12:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, get rid of him, he's no good for you. you deserve better.
you can do it, just let him go. something not right with him
2006-09-30 14:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by robkim04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is alittle afraid of you. maybe he doesnt know how to act around you. he might think you will make fun of him.
2006-09-30 12:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he did something wrong behind your back.
2006-09-30 12:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋