I just ended things with my boyfriend about a week ago. And it was actually because of my ex. He went through my phone and saw that we had been talking and I told my ex that we might be breaking up soon. And when he read that he ended it with me. But weve been talking about getting back together, we really love eachother. And the boyfriend i had before him was my high school sweetheart and first love. And we all go to the same college. He has a serious girlfriend. The guy i just broke up with went out of town this weekend. My other ex and i slept together last night. It was kindof supposed to be a "one last time" thing. We hadnt been anything more than friends in a year. We both want to be with our current loves and not eachother. I know it was horrible because he has a girlfriend. But technically i dont have a boyfriend even though we are talking about getting back together. I know he wouldnt be with me is he knew i slept with my ex. Im not telling him. Do you think this is okay?
2006-09-30 12:34:28 · 6 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, it's not OK because HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! Cheater! "It was kind of supposed to be a 'one last time' thing?" Is that how casual CHEATING has become nowadays? It would be bad enough if you met up by chance and things got out of hand because you were emotional. But it sounded like you planned it. And he PLANNED to cheat on his GF? Sick!
Your story is confusing anyway. Who's who? Ex this ex that...
You know what stay with the guy (the cheater), you deserve each other!
2006-09-30 12:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone sleeps with their exes. It's like a rule of some kind. If anyone says different or tries to make you feel ashamed then they're idiots coz most of us have gone backwards and figured sex was/is the answer to everything. It's not even a mistake, in my opinion. It's just how it is.
So...don't feel bad coz it might happen again. You don't have to give excuses coz it's no one's business. Who the hell are they to judge?
Man, I've got to stop. I'm getting mad.
Good luck and don't be ashamed if you can help it. Hey...was it good?
2006-09-30 19:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by jozlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% no....it sounds like you have mixed up feelings since people who really love someone do not sleep with thier exes..... come on, if u dont tell him you are putting him at risk for STDs since you have no idea what you ex currently could have and condoms dont protect you from STDs as well as most people think.... how could u even think about not telling him? it would be rediculously selfish (but then again i dont expect much more from a girl who 1 week out of a relationship sleeps with her ex bf) to not tell him...sorry to be harsh, but you are right.....he wont want you back and you should let him make this decision at least since you did not give him the choice if he wanted you to sleep with your ex.....get a new bf and try not to sleep with boys that have gfs that they "love".... man, i hope i can find someone who loves me enough to sleep with her ex.....i cant wait !!!! ....
*jozlyn- not everyone sleeps with their exes...
2006-09-30 19:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like a bunch of drama, but yeah if you want your dude back I wouldn't tell him. No good can come from it.
2006-09-30 19:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
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2006-09-30 19:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are trying to justify. So you know
2006-09-30 19:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋