she wants till wait intill she married to lose it. were both 17 and both virgrins i came close with ex though. heres the thing i dont want to wait till married and i like her lot more than anyone else i liked but she dont intends to get married till about 28 - 29. now i all about finding the right person and waiting but not 10 years and even then i may not even be with her, the problem how do i dump her with out looking bad or anything. I want to remain close friends as we are and kiss all the time tounge once when she was pissed but hardly ever she thinks it worng.
2006-09-30 12:13:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I not saying i am jerk i am waiting i had many opptunies to lose it before but i wait for the right person. but 10 years is differant.
2006-09-30 12:25:06 · update #1
alright everyone seems to think i am idiot.
my rule is i have to be going somone at least 6 and 1/2 months before i lose it. which good compared to my mates and brother he is 15 who already lost it.
my gf i like but i am only human and want to explore and 10 years is long way off of just kissing. most guys just want sex i dont but i have my limits.
2006-09-30 12:35:40 · update #2
i dont believe god but she does.
2006-09-30 12:45:23 · update #3
dude, if your going out w her because you wanna have sex? or get married, commit adultry or divorce, you go right ahead and live ghetto life, get a gf, not a fantasy that wont happen, im glad shes waiting... they never do, maked honeymoons 5 million times more special
2006-09-30 12:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF u relly liked her, u would respect her decision it's obvious u cant so u just need to be a man, (and i use this term loosely) and tell her da deal. and once u dump her, yea its possible 2 remain friends but as far as still doin the kissin' and shyt that privellage should be taken away along wit da relationship YOU decided to take away, and virginity is a sacred thing, it's valuable, it's precious, she wants to save it for the right guy(that's what God says to do too.) and she didnt kno if u were the one, and from the looks of it, it doesnt seem like you are! cuz if u were, u would have honored and respected her. SO jus break up wit her, you'll be doin her a favor!
2006-09-30 12:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you can dump her and go lose your virginity but leave her so she can be intact for the man she intends to marry. God made for it to be special encounter between Man and wife so when your time comes to get with your wife and u can't procreate because you spread your seed around just to have sex think about your lame *** question u asked today. First of all you will regret ******* everyone once you meet he right one you'll be turned out by every female on this earth cus every free loving sinner on this earth is into freaky sex, so when you meet the right lady who isn't in to freaky sex you'll cheat on your wife cause she won't want to anal , oral etc sex for and you'll never be happy. This is real life what are you in arush to put your penis in for . Let me tell you i have a husband and he had sex with all kinds of freaks and his mind is allfucked up behind that mess and he's miserable cus iam not no freak . you don't believe me ask ppl whom have had a 100 partners now they are not happy cus of the choices they made , females have gotten pregnant had abortions and now they can't concieve and they have HPV diseases and cervix cancer for too many sex partners think before you jump in the kitty son really think is 20-35seconds worth a lifetime of pleasure with your soul mate.
2006-09-30 12:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot wait tell her and break up with her for that reason. She is waiting for several reasons that you should understand. moral is just one. If she does and gets pregnat what all does she lose. Waiting on marriage also lets her focus on school because of a man decicding to leave one day she needs to be able to support herself and in this day and time may be neded to help pay the bills. Getting pregnat can affect the rest of her life after you decide that you are not happy any more and leave her all by herself.
2006-09-30 12:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ait her down and explain to her that you respect her decision but the tw o of you are not headed in the same direction just let her know that youy respect her enough to except her wishes but thats not what your looking for right now. she cant fault you for not wanting to wait ten years if she cant respect your opinion like you respect hers then she wasnt the right one anyway.
but dont you just go out and pick up the first little hoodrat that you can get your hands on. even though your a guy your first time should still be meaningful
2006-09-30 12:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you care about her like you say you do, respect her wishes.
If you aren't on the same level sexually, than it is best to break up. You guys are only 17, there is plenty of time to find the right one that shares the same views and ideas.
2006-09-30 12:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest.. Let her know you respect her wishes to wait. but you are feeling the need to explore. and your not saying your going to do it right now but you can't promise her you will wait. that is the honest from the heart.. and who knows what might happen but you have to be real.. that is what a foundation is built on trust.
2006-09-30 12:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all u need 2 bone up on ur english... seccond of all leave the situation, alone..
2006-09-30 12:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her than you'll respect her on her decision, and if you really can't stand to wait than you need to tell her that you feel that way. but i still think you should wait just like she is!
2006-09-30 12:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to dump her without looking bad becuase you are leaving her for the wrong reasons you arent being loyal homie
2006-09-30 12:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by who 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋