we have been seriously dating for almost 5 months. Now I have proof that he's still sending emails to other girls online asking to get to know them. Please let me know what i should do??
2006-09-30 12:03:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you met him in person or is this "serious dating" all on line?
2006-09-30 12:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy - you can't trust him.. You didn't say if the relationship was open or not though which if it was - this would be ok then.. though he should have told you.
I would tell him that you know he is not the type of guy you are looking for and you want to end things - or just that it is not working out.. You really don't need to know anything else - there is no excuse that would be good enough if these emails were meant for anything other than friendship or innocent flirting - move on...
Some guys end up online cause they can't have relationship offline - maybe cause they can't be trusted and online they can hide a lot of that ... or so they think - haha - move on - you deserve better - better to move on now and save yourself the pain in 12 months... 2years.... on and on..
:o)
2006-09-30 12:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously does not consider your relationship to be exclusive. If you do, ask him about it, then dump him if it continues.
Meeting on line can work well, but remember that the people out there online are the same people that are every where...and some of them are not very nice. That may be the case here
2006-09-30 12:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you two started dating seriously, was it clear that your in a monogamist relationship? If so, confront him in a calm and rational manner. Express your concerns, if you two come to an agreement and understanding. Then if he continues to email other women, then send him packing.......good luck
2006-09-30 12:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, NOBODY dates seriously on line. This is bs. You only start thinking about being serious when you see the person face to face and still.....it might be a huge mistake. Sorry, honesty is a must.
2006-09-30 12:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and see where he stands! I also met my boyfriend on a dateline and knew he was still calling from time to time! I told him look if your not happy with this maybe I should continue to call too! That put a stop to that!
2006-09-30 12:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him like garbage, kick him to the curb ,tell him to make like a banana and split,and change your email adress and remember you can't find love on the internet
2006-09-30 12:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act on it only if he actually meets these girls in public. Otherwise sweep it under the rug.
2006-09-30 12:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit talking to him, he has used you. Hes not serious about you. If you were smart, youd put him on ignore and move on. Im sorry he did this to you....He doesnt deserve you....and you dont need someone like him.
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2006-09-30 12:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋