Today I had ran into my old friend. He called out to me. We had gotten into a fight over the summer. He said he was sorry for the summer. I had said I was sorry too. He imed me saying that he was sorry and he wanted to remain friends. I realized that iwas still in love with him. I have a problem where I am also in love with my other friend. The first guy is sweet, caring, is my shoulder to cry on, hes been here my whole life. The second guy is caring, sweet, cute and is a good person. I love them both. I really love them. I don't know what to do please, please help me with this problem.
2006-09-30 11:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow you're heart...you'll be led to the right one. You may love both of them but you can only be IN love with one of them...Use your intuition--like Oprah says! You'll do the right thing
2006-09-30 12:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age, dear. If youre a minor and not having any plans on marriage....I'd say that it's okay to love both and be friends with both. Otherwise, I dont know the particulars on the guys, they both sound nice...one has more experience with you and the other not so much?
Dont know what the fight was about, but it's mature to make amends. Ask your current guy what he thinks. That may give you an idea where to go from there.
2006-09-30 19:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask your self "what is love" Love is not just being sweet, caring and being a shoulder to cry on. Love is deeper tha that. And you also need to make a decision. You should choose the one that you can coomunicate clearly with, that you know well enough to make through the ups and downs that every relationship has. If the one who admitted that he wanted to be freinds, then thats where you should be at also.
2006-09-30 19:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would test them out and if u are serious about a relationship. Also, talk to them see who is willing to put what u want into a relationship. Who are u happiest with? Which ever one seems to be serious and u are also happy with him, and u think one day u could even see yourself married to him, take that one and tell the other one he can be your friend.
2006-09-30 19:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by deeyve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are both more then friends to you -that you care deeply for them both You need to decide which one you care the most for and stick with that one unless you are playing the field and not going steady with anyone!
2006-09-30 19:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to make a choice on which one you want to be with. If won't be easy but it has to be done. If you don't you risk losing them both. Good Luck
2006-09-30 19:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her is what you do first you need to do is make a pro and con chart you meet another guy who you love be with him that is what I think because the other guy already broke your friendship come on All I can say is FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!!
2006-09-30 19:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out who you are and what you really want before you end up hurting yourself and or the other people involved.
2006-09-30 19:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by girl4God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with the first guy.It is hard to find someone that will let you cry on their shoulder.
2006-09-30 19:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by brenda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one that you can see yourself being with for a long time
2006-09-30 19:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋