I think I am. In fact, I know I am. I'm a pathological liar. I have those internet problems, I can't stop lying to my teachers- like, when they ask: "Is there a problem with your arm?" A lot of times, my arm hurts, and I always say no. I lie to my parents- I sometimes lie to my friends online, because I'm... well, I don't know. I don't know what to do. Everytime I lie- I'm sinning. Lying in sinful, and I want to stop. What do I do?
2006-09-30
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I don't know you so I don't know that you are a pathological liar. And I wouldn't be convincing yourself of that quite yet. There is a difference between a pathological liar and a compulsive liar. Pathological liars are usually killers and what not, and that's why I say to not call yourself that quite yet. You can find the defintion of both a pathological liar and a compulsive liar on the internet at something like google and you can even read articles about both. After you've read some articles about those types of liars and you are still convinced that you are a pathological liar then you should tell your parents and tell them you need to see a therapist and he/she can help you determine why you lie so much. They'll help you find the underlying issues so you can stop lying..If you don't have supportive parents like that or you don't want to talk to them to your best friends mom, school counselor, trusted teacher. Just tell someone so you can get help. I'm proud of you for admitting you have a problem and that way it will be easier to fix. But get help as soon as you can. You don't want to lie the rest of your life.
2006-09-30 12:19:44
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answered by lylitalianbeauty 3
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If I were you I would just chill and stop stressing about it so much... It may be the case that you're so concerned about what other people think that you are scared to be honest. This might not be the case but its really common and the best way to deal with it is to be ok with the truth and ok about putting people out etc Also, try breaking the habit by telling a few hard truths ie confessing to something that you've broken etc
Don't beat yourself up about the whole sinful thing either. As humans we lie all the time e.g. "are you ok" "Yes I'm fine" or "Do i look fat in my new dress" "no you're a skinny as a rake" etc. It will take a lot to get rid of all lies and it should be a gradual progress.
Hope this helps...
2006-09-30 12:00:22
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answered by Anonymous
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first of all, stop being so critcal and hard on yourself. lying is not the worse offense ever committed. are you lying because you DELIBERATELY want to offend God. remember, God is forgiving and does not want you living in the state of misery that you are in.
here's a suggestion. go out and buy yourself a new ring. put it on and wear it night and day. when you're on the verge of telling a lie, touch the ring as a reminder that YOU CAN tell the truth.
or, even if you make yourself forego ONE lie per day, you're headed in the right direction.
if you find that you absolutely can't stop lying, perhaps you need to see someone professionally to try to come up with a reason for this behavior.
wishing you well!
2006-09-30 12:07:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Well you could have one of your parents take you to a therapist to talk to but if you feel that you are a pathological liar you should go see a psychiatrist to see if there is any medication that he can put you on to help you not to lie anymore.
2006-09-30 12:15:23
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answered by Anonymous
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witch arm darlin..PM me on that.. could be deadly serious if it is the left arm. as for being a liar.. if you were in fact a pathological liar they you'd be lying now.. as for lies being sinful?..perhaps but here's one people who bark about sinning don't believe.. they are all practicing black magic, here's how.. ANY time you have some one believing something that isn't true you have cast an evil spell.. thats in the bible..
2006-09-30 12:09:25
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answered by TimeWastersInc 6
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Giga: you know lies hurt every one in fact truth is easy to tell
just learn about it because faith stronger accept God now realize how much better that will feel! do what parents ask you
obey the teachers follow all rules of internet be nice person talk
to a honest friend like me of course Gaurdian Angel
2006-09-30 12:14:54
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answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6
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Quit lying
2006-09-30 11:57:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Close your mouth. Think before you speak and make an effort to stop lying.
2006-09-30 11:57:47
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answered by Anonymous
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yea right, how do i know you are telling the truth, i think you need to be honest with yourself. i bet you're the type that agrees with everyone weather you believe they are right or not. i think you may have a personality confilct you do not know who you are? was you a breast feed baby or did hit the bottle and still hitting the bottle?
GET A LIFE EVERYONE LIES TO SOME DEGREE IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 12:02:35
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answered by studentcounselor 1
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FAKE YOU ARE LYING
JUST FOR THAT I'M PUTTING A CURSE ON YOU
YOU WILL WET THE BED UNCONTROLLABLY
STARTING OCT 5/06
2006-09-30 12:45:35
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answered by Anonymous
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