I want OUT of the "friends zone!!" What can I do??
2006-09-30 11:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by Max K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you are in teh "friend zone," there is no way out of it.
Just don't enter the friend zone next time.
2006-09-30 11:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. from a girls point of view, maybe you should work on how interested in them you act. It can get complicated b/c it can go either way: You can act TOO interested, or you can can too UNinterested. Don't say things like "I really like you" or "I think we could date sometime and things could work out" or anything too hasty.. ESPECIALLY when the mood is wrong. However, you need to act interested ENOUGH. Flirt a little (usually easy does it), be a little mysterious but not too much. And if they're in the friend zone, it should be a comfortable enough atmosphere to tell them that you're looking for someone and you're open for new ideas. If you're interested in them, express the qualities that they have are what you're looking for. But be subtle enough. Remember, girls take hints better than guys (sorry it's the truth). Hope this helps! Good luck & God bless! ~Me
2006-09-30 11:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatelovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go into the friends zone. Never.
If you get there, cut your losses, whatever the price.
Never act like a nice guy.
Never act like a girlfriend.
Never be a wussie - never!
Who gets the girl? The biker or the wussie?
Who gets the girl? The asshole or the sweet guy?
Who gets the girl? The smartass or the guy in the friends zone.
Get your balls back and act like a man. You will get the girl, more than you can handle.
2006-09-30 11:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girls you know now see you as a friend they aren't going to change how they feel about you. You will meet the right one, maybe you could going different places and joining up with a new group of people
2006-09-30 11:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by cino_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being their friend. Girls like a guy usually, not their friend. She should see you as an independant person. When she gets to know you, attracted to you for you...then you'll be the friend that she wants more from.
2006-09-30 11:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning! If she already sees you as a friend, you probably will never be anything more, even if she DOES sleep w/you. Women make up their minds about that pretty certainly, whereas men almost always want sex!
2006-09-30 11:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, how do you get there with guys? I have tried to talk around the issue but kind of get shot down. So now I am spending time with someone else not him. That way maybe he will miss me or I will find soemone else.
2006-09-30 11:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by samanny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting your time on them ... and start sleeping with their friend ... if their friends like u .. they will start liking u too.
That is what women r like.
Dr Bad
relationship expert
ps. But if u r crap .. then u will get a bad report from their friends... and then they will see u as a joke.
Trust me ... im a doctor...
2006-09-30 11:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start flirting...maybe pick it up a notch than you usually do...
also, is you REALLy wanna make the change fast, ask one of the girls to a dance....or just ask one of them out.
ya know, although girls seem like they only see you as a "friend", they might actually like you as a potential guy friend...you just have to make a move to show them that.
good luck
2006-09-30 11:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a hard question,you shoul make her get inlove in you
i have a friend that likes but i woul never date him because he is not what i want
think about it
their are a lot of girls that will like dating wiyh you
2006-09-30 11:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋