Alright, I have this guy who shows signs of liking me, and so on, but homecoming is October 7th, this saturday and I see him on monday. My plan is to ask him out or ask him why he didn't ask me out because he's said that he doesn't want to go to homecoming, but only because he went with the same horrible girl on/off three years in a row. So I'm going to ask him why he didn't ask me out instead of her and tell him ther reason I say such stupid things around him is because I like him. So how are guys with girls asking them out last second? I really like him, but should I bear it all out so late?
2006-09-30 11:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey lol dont just ignore this here . get up now and go ask him out. dont ask him why he hasnt asked you or anything else just blert it out . hey i like you and please go to home comeing as my date lol . i know youll feel scared and maybe he will say no but sweety ya gotta do this . just take deep breath and get er done lol . youll thank me after this . good luck and i meant do this now before that other girl takes your spot here [ move girl lol]
2006-09-30 11:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by sigmond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, BUT don't ask him WHY he didn't ask you. That's none of your business. You don't own him yet, and are not entitled to his reasons. That's a bit pushy dear.
But you should, by all means, tell him you'd like to take him to homecoming. This means, that the expense is yours to bear!
I suppose that you can word the invitation in some other way so that it comes out to be a "dutch treat", like, "if you're going and have no plans, I'd very much like to accompany you. . .Oh, I'll be glad to pay my share. . ."
But don't make the BIG assumption that he couldn't have a date, for any reason.
So just ask him, and be prepared to
1. pay for the date, or
2. get blown off.
2006-09-30 11:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just fine if a girl asked a man out. It is not in the old days, girls can do the asking just as much as a man can. So go for it. Some men like it when a girl ask or makes the first step.
2006-09-30 11:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by littlered 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make it clean and simple. Tell him that you want to go to homecoming but that you really don't want to go by yourself and you were wondering if he would be interested in going with you? Simple as that. Don't get into long explanations or examinations of his past dating behavior. Unless you've said something really insulting or degrading to him, you needn't explain about your saying stupid thing around him. If you have said something insulting, apologize. Then ask him about going with you to home coming.
And don't let fear get in your way. Too many people close down their dating opportunities because of fear. The only way to get dates is to run the risk of being turned down. That is how it is.
2006-09-30 11:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Magic One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys love it when a girl asks them out
2006-09-30 11:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Take the pressure off the guys for a change!
2006-09-30 11:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by John W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt ask you out dont worry ask him out it is not any diffrent when a girl does if guys can girls can it doesnt matter how stupid it looks if u really like him go ask him straight up if he'll "go out" with you good luck
2006-09-30 11:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u didn't say late. It's prolly to late for that. But as for asking, many like it cuz they are wimps. But it depends on the guy, sorry.
2006-09-30 11:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy love being asked out my girlz i mean usual guys have to sweat thear a*s of and worry them selvs out of their minds before we ask girls out cause it makes us nervous as hell .. so u should ask his out in stead of lett ing him do all of the work all of the time
2006-09-30 11:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out--sounds like you rly like him. worst thing that could happen is that he'll say no.
2006-09-30 11:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋