im shy ive never had a boyfriend. hes 15 and im 13 and i dont think i should but he is very nice and respectful. I would like to be just friends but hes such a gentle man hes like the perfect guy. I hjusat dont Know.Im areal good girl and incredibly smart.Hes not the only high school boy whos been looking at me and its scary.
2006-09-30 11:26:41 · 24 answers · asked by Joa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im think i should not go out whit him iv never have gone out whit no one in my life.
2006-09-30 11:34:34 · update #1
If you are not comfortable with it, don't do it.... there is a big difference between 13 and 15
2006-09-30 11:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie73 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you don't feel that you should and even before the two of you have gone out on a date you are going against your own instincts then let me tell you now that this is how you get into trouble and fast. I remember being 13 and wanting to have a boyfriend and can say that I probably would have just gone ahead and dated him too. But, looking back...I also see that this is the very first step leading toward the end of your own sense of self. Be friends with him, do what is comfortable for you and be proud of yourself for being true to yourself!!!
2006-09-30 11:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dhara 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
permit me start up via saying that if a fellow invites you on a date he's to blame for the cost of the entertainment. purely once you're in a dating and you sense that it quite is a economic rigidity for him would desire to you grant to pay on your share. you're youthful and desire some companionship and friendship yet do not rush into something just to fill the void. particular, make an effort to get to understand one yet another extra desirable earlier determining to take the friendship extra. nevertheless he's older than you in years you're probable on a similar psychological point as females strengthen swifter than boys for the time of their formative years ... it is why you sense that connection between you. don't get to annoying; only take it superb and sluggish and notice the place it is going from there.
2016-10-18 06:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by lagrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it very slow talk to him at school and on the phone I don't see a problem with you dating a 15 year old but I don't think that at 13 a girl should be going out on a date unless they are just hanging with some friends
2006-09-30 11:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by babybre81 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Patience is the key. Take things very slow, and if he get's frustrated with it then that's a good time to let him date girls his own age. Just be careful and plan activities as a group at first. Remember, he may be only 2 years older, but now that he's in high school he's been exposed to kids at least 4-5 years older than you. Two years difference at your age can be a lot.
2006-09-30 11:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by akflame81 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There is no such thing as a nice, respectful, gentleman, and perfect 15 year old guy. They are all @$$holes out of control. Don't even try.
Wait a few years, get your life together first.
2006-09-30 11:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Whats scary ... is the fact that your 13, have never had a boyfriend, and know what the perfect guy is ..im lmao.
Stick to being a good girl hun ... that is something u may know about.
Dr Bad
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taking no more patients
2006-09-30 11:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
As I said the first time you asked this question, you need to mature a bit. I've never met a 15 year old "gentleman." You have no business dating high school boys.
2006-09-30 11:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
At age 13 ask Mom
2006-09-30 11:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely not, you are to young and so isn't he. You have your whole life ahead of you, enjoy being young. I wish I had. I'm now 32, and was sexually active at 15 yr old and had my first son at 17. There is plenty of time.
2006-09-30 11:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by tymiri 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋