I'm 22 and I get plenty of chicks and all, but whenever I get intimate with any female, it doesn't matter who it is, I can only reach climax if the song "Oops I did it again" by Britney Spears is playing in the background.
This is so embarrassing because I can not function without this song playing.
Some of the girls think I'm a freak after I had sex with them a few times, because they wonder why I'm always playing Britney Spears.
Can somebody help me?
2006-09-30 11:16:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Personally I cannot help you. However I can point you in the direction of help. You should make appointment with a mental health clinic. Also make an appointment with a urologist. I feel certain you can be helped to over come this problem. Please make and keep the appointments.
2006-09-30 11:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry Pony 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we are conditioned to a certain response. Ever hear of Pavlov's dog response with the bell. Also before he was stopped he was using condition response with his young son and a rat. I guess I'm asking at some point did you have a really good sexual experience with that song playing.
Have you ever tried being open with a woman that you're with and telling her the story? You know if you're having sex with someone and you can't be open and honest with her, then all it is, is sports f_ _ _ ing!!! And at that point why would you care what they thought?
Bottom line is a lot of people need certain things to be just right to reach a climax. If you are in love with someone you and her can work this out. It's not as strange as some people would lead you to believe. It's like needing a special pillow to sleep or a certain pen to write with. Good luck, many of us are caught up in HABITS!!!
2006-09-30 18:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that why you're wearing the helmet, to cover your face? You said that only some girls think that you're a freak. So you're getting some. Something is better than nothing. So I say play on. (singing) Oops I did it again.... Now it's in my head.
2006-09-30 18:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by LaLaLa! I'm not listening! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a romantic slow song cd....play it ALL THE TIME....just enough for u too like it but not get sick of it....then wen ur wit ur mate play the song....oh and btw THROW AWAY THAT BRITNEY SPEARS CD...that should probably be the first thing u should do!!!
2006-09-30 18:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to help yourself on this one... Britney Spears won't be able to help you forever..... It's all in your head that you cannot function...
2006-09-30 18:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Just don't play it when you are functioning. You'll get back to "normal" quicker than you think. Good luck!
2006-09-30 18:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower while listening to different music
2006-10-01 00:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Okay, well try to wean yourself off of it. Maybe get the next girl to sing it for you suring sex?
I don't know how you're gonna get out of this one.
2006-09-30 18:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never heard of this before but can you imagine it is playing in your head?
I would suggest speaking with a counselor if you can't correct this problem.
2006-09-30 18:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by happymomma3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start singing along with the song when you're having sex with her, and when the part where you're suppose to say oops, comes, scream it out loud!!! OOOPPS!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 21:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋