we were together for the first time last night.we were going to save that for our weding night but i wanted to to get to know him first.we are getting married next month but i can't deal with his his tiny erection.i was verry disapointed in his performance,i couldn't even feel him and after 3 thrusts he came.he allowed me to take pictures of his erection,WOW what a pittyfull sight.i need some help here.
2006-09-30 10:57:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh, dump him!
i know its hard on him, but u cant have a sex life with that. arent u glad u didnt wait till u were married!!!
2006-09-30 10:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brummie Geeza 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is smart and kind and charming and funny and educated and wonderful in every way but a small penis I would say keep him around. My first instinct though was to say "get a new boyfriend" but that is so shallow.
Youll end up dumping him. Just dont go telling the neighborhood about it or he may freak out. Men can be self conscious about that.
Why on earth were you in bed with a man you arent married to. There are ways to find out how big it is before sex.
2006-09-30 11:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Great lady! Have had sex before marriage?
Well, no great wonder because it is a cultural thing now. If you don't have sex perhaps they will call you an idiot... hm? Now what have you made of yourself?
Well, do you love him really?
-> If YES then don't accept him as he is.
-> If NO then you can (in you own words) GET TO KNOW some other guy and try again & again until someone ultimately succeeds in satisfying you and then you can marry him if he wants too...!
********************
I M P O R T A N T:
********************
Size really doesn't matter but if your man's penis is really too small to make you feel that there's something inside your vagina and you don't love him then you can say "good by" to him forever or use some toys if you want to marry him.
Sex is really important to satisfy carnal desires and it may spoil your married life if there is lack of love and trust!
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
2006-09-30 11:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by wullubemyfriend 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The size of a man shouldnt deter you from marrying him. If he is a good person and treats you with respect thats all that should matter. This man may have come quick because of his lack of sex and this being his first time with you being a mature woman you know this can happen. Your relationship wasnt based on sex until this one night and now your holding this against this man because of this size. Yes leave him alone and go find a well endowed man that treats you like crap.
2006-09-30 11:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish you 11 year olds would get off this site or talk about something other than the human anatomy. Give us all a break. We don't care.
2006-09-30 10:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make up any excuse you have you (except the truth) and break it off.(the engagement, that is). He's proud of it (hence the photos). You will be absolutely miserable, end up cheating and have a generally miserable life. Why? That "save yourself" crap is exactly that - crap.
2006-09-30 11:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats like a woman with a cave for a vagina. I'd find another boy friend. One that you would be happy with.
2006-09-30 11:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt only be about sex...its the feelings that count, if u really do love him, u will look past that....my 1st guys was the size of a wax crayon,
2006-09-30 11:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love him.... well... there are always toys, and sleeves you can put on him which make him bigger... i guess it all depends on how much you really love him. There are alternatives you just have to give them a try :)
2006-09-30 11:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should invest in some toys. If you love your boyfriend, you shouldn't leave him because he is small. Be creative.
2006-09-30 11:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋