What happened?
We did meet face to face to have a drink. It was great, we really hit it off. It's been quite a while for me, but I was absolutely not going to have sex with this guy right away. Two days later he IM's me that he wants to come over for a bl*w jb. I am like, give me a f**king break. Before that, I was actually planning to sleep with him the next weekend. Naturally, I refused. He begs a few minutes and I told him that was not what I had planned for my first sexual experience in a long time. He said he would talk to me later. I just got more and more pissed and I was hoping he would. Sure enough, 5 (yea, 5) fing days later I get an IM like it never happened. He wants to come over. I never once invited him to my house in the first place. I told him, forget it, asshole, and I put "ignore" on him. That felt so good !
Can you believe the nerve of some people? I hope someone has something positive to say.
2006-09-30 10:54:38 · 25 answers · asked by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, No, No, Stupid, I am not. I don't even respond when I get an IM from someone that I do not know. Never again.
2006-09-30 11:03:24 · update #1
There are many great people here, men and women. I know that.
You guys are so funny, thanks!
2006-09-30 11:06:14 · update #2
LOL Rachel, Yea lesbian would be great. Only one problem, women just don't have the right equipment.
2006-09-30 11:08:57 · update #3
Alina, what are you an advertisment? I am most definitely not down. It took me a whole 2 seconds to get over this guy.
2006-09-30 11:20:47 · update #4
Thanks Katy, it is a second first time.
2006-09-30 12:41:01 · update #5
I just got another IM right now. What do they do, put in the city and we all come up. I just do not even respond. I want my name off that list now!
2006-09-30 14:41:43 · update #6
I think you meet jerks everywhere, You just meet more on-line because of the volume of people you meet. Lets say the ratio is one in five. One out of every five people you meet is going to be a jerk. Now that person may be a teller at the bank or a clerk somewhere but they are the one jerk in the mix and you may not meet them because you stayed home today. Cool. Now you are on-line. You are in contact with say 50 people in a day, 10 are jerks you just don't know it yet. Trust me.
Now I am off to work to meet my five, your five and a few other peoples five. Work is for suckers!
2006-09-30 12:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Katy_Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
None. The only man I ever actually met in person that I met online was a real sweetheart. I could have totally fallen in love with him, but things just didn't work out due to distance. (He was in St. Louis and I was on the west coast of Canada). My Sister in law though is in a similar situation now with a gentleman from NY. He is an absolutely wonderful person, and they are making it work successfully. They are planning to marry next year.
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. Not all guy online are total jerks. Good luck finding one of the gems!
:-)
2006-09-30 18:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bug's Mama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's gone past the hand shake,first kiss and straight to what he wants. Lucky you now you know whats on his mind. Now what are you going to do about it?
I mean all that stuff he wants to fast fwd by is some of the best parts of a new relationship.
BTW I'm running 50% on the on-line thing.One complete nut case who still had the wrist ID on from jail. And a real lady who I see every time we can work it out.
2006-09-30 18:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i met my fiance on myspace and we met in person and dated for almost six months but then i found out he cheated....i was really hurt litterally i mean i did it with the guy because he has sworn to me i was the best thing that had happend to him and other stuff and well whatever but now it's just my friends in school are really geting pissed the **** off because i keep crying and **** i can't really eat without gagging we were going to have a life together after all the things he had promised me.i'm 19 years old i've been in plenty of relationships to realize how someone is cheating and the signs the first sign is being really distant and plus lying to find a reason not to see you.
2006-09-30 18:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I haven't had that kind of experience. I have met a lot of good people. But I am married so if I get the nuts that want something for nothing, I block them I have only had a few through the years.
But I would say my online experiences have been 90% positive.
So far-
Knock on wood
2006-09-30 18:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Belladonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try and be the not-so-jerk type online. There are lots of people I hit it off with online and could see myself having a relationship with or even just casual sex, but I would never press the issue or be a ******* like this guy you describe. Sorry to hear about it. :(
2006-10-01 01:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've met several jerks online, but this one really takes the cake: We talked, and I asked him up front if he was christian, cause I didn't want to start dating someone who wasnt. He said he was, we went out, and started dating. Soon afterwards he told me all about how much he hates christianity. He says he never told me anything of the sort later. Then he starts teling me that I don't really love him if I don't have sex with him every day, and whenever he wants. He refused to take down his personal ad from online, cliaming "he never checks it". He even went as far to tell me that he was going to leave me if I didn't go out and find another girl for him and I to have a threesome with! I found out he cheated on me, and he still wouldn't change his ideas about the threesome. I left him, and then he tried to talk to my sister, and then starting dating the next girl he could find, and he proposed to her! What an ***! I'm so glad to be done with him.
2006-09-30 18:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well no i haven't met anyone off the net and i never will cause who can you trust on here and no telling who this person is and anybody can lie on here very easy and they turn out to be a murder,rapist,or anything so no way would i ever and i will still continue to meet in the real world so i can see face to face and you know what you are getting into and you have to be very desperate to want to date on the net.
2006-09-30 18:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I've met these people, and you're right. Who in the HELL do they think they are just to assume you're there to fulfill their sexual gratification simply because you met online? I've ignored many people who I thought were friends. It happens.
Something positive. I have also met some caring genuine people who I hope to visit when travelling to their area next summer. There are good people here too.
2006-09-30 17:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes...I had a bunch of jerks I met online. Like one of my ex bfs...wanted more and more nude pictures of me. When I told him I wouldn't do it more than in just underwear he got mad. He's a jerk hun find someone who really cares for you. Find a compatible guy if you're looking online. Eharmony.com is a great site...and as far as I know really works...try that and forget the horny jerks you see on IM. :-)
2006-09-30 17:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋