me and my boyfriend has been going out for 2 months. we've held hands in class and at football games. But i really like him and want things to go a little faster between us i want him to kiss me i keep trying to tell him in notes but he says hes "not ready" HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 10:48:53 · 17 answers · asked by soccerchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's not ready don't force him. he might only be 10 for crying out loud.
wait until you are both ready.
2006-09-30 10:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Leela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling if he say's he's not ready wait til he is ready i am 19 years old i wish i was honest with my boyfriend before thing got way out of hand i was 17 when i lost my virginity but i regret that because it was wasn't supposed to happend the way it did.but anyways just wait til he is ready maybe you can take him out and be romantic to him and let him know you'll wait for him until he is ready if you cannot then you don't really love him trust me i know i'm 19 years old i've been in and out of relationships to know what love is and how it hurts when it ends.but good luck sweetheart.
2006-09-30 17:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kiss him!. As a guy I'm a little tired of the way the game gets played. Why can't a girl ask a guy out??? Or give the first kiss????
2006-09-30 17:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by scarface 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok next time you get him alone while your talking get very close and mantain eye contact and dont let him break this and talk very sexy and touch him while your talking . if he still dosent kiss you after this then im sorry but only two alternatives left . grab him and take that kiss yourself or dump him and be sure you tell him why afterwards . good luck and remember your young and some guys just are scared stiff until they learn better
2006-09-30 17:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he's not ready, back off. I have found that boys like to be the ones to kind of "chase" us. Do you know what I mean? I'd let him set the pace. Good luck and let things develop at their own pace. Meanwhile, enjoy getting to know him. Holding hands can be pretty sweet.
2006-09-30 17:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by leahcutie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
work your charm no im just kidding. .. well he isnt ready yet. he wants it to be right.. alot of times it is just like sex. but he doesnt want to waste a good thing. i never understood why my friend was with a girl for almost 3 yrs and never kissed but their relashionship is deep and it lasted for a long time and still is. he just doesnt want to rush.. because then other things would come faster than what he wanted. you dont want him to regret it do you. trust me its still going good. Like he said. he jsut isnt ready.. it will be amazing once he is.. it is worth waiting for. Even if its just kissing. Most things in life we take for granted than enjoying it. I wish i would of did the same thing he is doing now. I know its weird because its just kissing but think about it this way.. each thing you two begin. youll get so excited to start it ..and feel butterflys when you two kiss.. and more to come with other situations. He thinks your special.. unless you two are like younge then.. its just lol kid thing.. like ewww...girl cooties. lol.. it doesnt really wrap with age.. but studies show that kids younger years..., arent very interested into kissing and other stuff. but it will happen when hes ready and you two will enjoy it. and it will be unexspected. dont hurry your life. or things in it.. ,feel the good thing.. and enjoy what alot of people dont have.., its very different from what your used to Im assuming. so just go with the flow.., and dont let go. just because you two arent kissing yet. I used to think that if my husband wasnt going to hold me that he didnt love me.. but being sweet and kissing me and making love to me.. It didnt matter it all made up for it self of how we felt with eachother.. and how good it feels to have things going smoothly. i hoped i helped. good luck. x
2006-09-30 18:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he;s not ready.period. wait a lil bit and then when he kisses it will be like magic and real sweet..its worth the wait cuz if he kisses you when he's not ready it wont be that good of an experience...its worth the wait which im sure wont be very long now
2006-09-30 17:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by luv muh baby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not ready he's not ready. However...maybe if he's too nervous to do it himself...maybe you should do it for him. Just gently so he doesnt get scared..cause going out for two months and not kissing..yeah he's a bit slow...but hey maybe he's old fashiones. LOL.
2006-09-30 17:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he won't come to you, then you go to him. The next time you're with him, pretend you have something in your eye. Ask him for help, and, as he is looking closely, plant a big one right on his lips!
2006-09-30 17:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by rhino 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've not kissed him yet?how old are you two anyway?12?
2006-09-30 17:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋