Ex and I broke up 2 1/2 yrs ago.I left him without no explanation just quick talkin to him and ignoring his calls.he really loved me and i hurt him bad.he was wantin a serious long term commitment and I wasnt ready .We r only a year apart in age and grew up together.But I wanted to still party and not do anything constructiveHe was focused.Now that I see my mistakes and now on the same level he is; I realize that I love him still and want him back. We've talked about 5 or7 times in the last week but before that its been over a year. what are some ways to get his attention and show im not the same girli was back then
2006-09-30 10:33:16 · 8 answers · asked by carebearmaree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ppl seldom change, they adapt. Presently you might be left out in life and needing care, and cant think of anybody but him. Go to him and tell exactly wat you have said in your question here. Most men are forgiving and he might forgive you, though I dont belong to the majority men and so dont believe you. Still will wish you have a comforting life.
2006-09-30 10:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u can do is talk to him and tell him jus how u feel. a closed mouth wont get fed. and if u want something bad enough u jus have to go for it. im sure if he loved u like that before, something still has to be there. he may have been hurt but he is still talking to u so that should say something. follow your heart and dont loose out on this because u couldn't open your mouth to tell him how u feel. good luck!
2006-09-30 10:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have been in an identical subject myself. I conventional responsabilty for all of the flaws that I even have achieved that had a unfavorable impact on my relationship and apologised for that. I even are starting to be constructive and concentrated on each and every of the flaws that had made my relationship constructive interior the previous. all of it takes time and it has taken over 6 months for my considerable different to settle for that I even have replaced. hang in there in case you're meant to be he will eventualy come around, interior the mean time dont bombard him with txts supply him slightly area, yet even though you do shop your txts constructive, renowned how lots he potential to you. i began out calling my considerable different "my prince". he's now calling me "his princess" and is even telling me that he loves me. yet another considerable element is often handle others the way you prefer to be taken care of.
2016-10-15 09:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him. Be his friend for now. Eventually I'm sure he'll realize you've changed and will fall in love with you again. Explain to him that you needed time to mature and now that you have you are willing to give it another shot. Good luck. :-)
2006-09-30 10:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, tell him what you feel and then take it slow but still go for it. But the number one thing to keep in mind is be consistant. He will be looking to little signs that you haven't changed.
2006-09-30 10:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Spud_nut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is smart he will take his time and wait till he sees if you are what he wants or not. personally I would not be willing to take a chance on someone who hurt me before. If you really have changed he will see it and everybody else will to, best of luck
2006-09-30 10:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and tell him that youve changed and that you still love him and you wanna go steady wit him again.
2006-09-30 10:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, you're not fooling me...you haven't changed one bit!
2006-09-30 10:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋