I'm 17 and still virgin and i have never had a GF in my life...its not that i cant get a girl F...i don't see any need to do this.(I'm not gay) and i have no problem with it...but it seems to bother some people.like some of my "friends" who think that everyone has to get laid during high school...well,maybe im not ready for this yet...im bussy enough for not to think about girls all the time...do you agree with me or you think the way my "friends" do?
2006-09-30 10:06:20 · 13 answers · asked by The dude 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with it dude. I am 20 and I am in my second year of college and I am still a virgin. I know that it can be hard with all your friends making fun of you and it does not get much better in college. However just keep on sticking to your convictions. Once you find a girlfriend wait for a while before you do anything or better yet like me wait until you are married because what better wedding gift can you give your wife then your virginity?
2006-09-30 10:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by pt112886 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age all of the kids are caught up in group mentality. Don't worry about being single or being a virgin. Being a virgin is something you should be proud of. Getting "laid" and making love are two completely different things. Wait until it's right. You won't regret it. Also remember this...in the big picture you have about 2 seconds to just be a kid and have fun and the rest of your life for all the mature responsibilities, both good and bad that come with age.
2006-09-30 17:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by fluer_ball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin; being a virgin is a quality to admire. Your friends could be giving you a hard time because they regret how casual sex has lost its intimacy and how it may have brought STDs into their lives, etc. and now they are jealous of you and your integrity. Promiscuity has probably brought a lot of pain into their lives and they regret the burden of that pain. Be understanding of where your friends are coming from and continue to stick to your own goals.
2006-09-30 17:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-30 17:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well buddy, your friends should be supportive of you. Good for you. The minute you start the relationship thing is when you troubles will beging. Believe me, i've been at it for the past 30 years. Do your thing and don't worry about what people think. Believe me the right girl will come along and it will be so cool for her that she is the first one. Its worth the wait.
2006-09-30 17:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. And no there is nothing wrong with being a virgin and being single.
2006-09-30 20:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with the way you choose to live or what path you choose to travel (as long as you victimize no one...including yourself). Ignore your friends, if they are true friends they will respect your choices, if they don't ...find new friends.
2006-09-30 17:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by JReb_67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are on the right track. Do what is right for you in the time it is right. Don't let your friends push you into something you are not ready for.
2006-09-30 17:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Job!!!
Reel men can wait for the right woman.
Good Luck
2006-09-30 17:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by David Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude i wish i could do it all over again, i got caught up in all that crap and it did a number on me. do what you feel is best and plan your life out. trust me you won't regret it.
2006-09-30 17:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by sassman36 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋