my ex and i broke up a year ago... we didn't speak or see each other for 8 months... then when school started back up this fall we became good friends... we now hang out just as much than we did while we dated... he broke up w/ me because i think he's kind of scared to have a relationship... he was falling in love with me back then and it scared him. he's uncomfortable talking about the past so it rarely comes up. it still hurts me too. i still love him and i just don't know if he still loves me... i know he doesn't want a relationship for whatever reason but all i really want to know is are the feelings still there...? my friends say that he acts like he still does like me but i don't know. im asking ya'll this because maybe there are obvious signs or something that i can't see that will give me an answer as to one way or the other... does it seem like he still loves me? or is it completely friendly?
2006-09-30 10:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU SEEM MUCH MORE MATURE THAN HE IS .. YOUR BEST CHOICE IS TO STICK WITH JUST FRIENDSHIP ..AND STAY AWAY WITH THAT "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS " THAT ONLY CAUSES MORE HEART -ACHES !!
2006-09-30 10:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by ANDY MILLER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-30 10:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard question to answer but i will try. I mean it could be both i mean you said that you don't wnat a relationship for whatever reason so i mean no matter what nothing will happen if you dont' want to you know. If it's true love then it will break then come back. I hope that helps but yea
2006-09-30 10:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are at least two kinds of love: romantic and friendly. I think your ex-bf loves you in the friendly way. Please, please do not put all your eggs in this basket. Keep looking, don't let your friends influence you. You will find a keeper out there who can't stay away from you for 8 months. Not wanting to talk about it is a very clear sign.
2006-09-30 10:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be love! It was for me [similar situation] just tell him how you feel but don't ask him out! If he still feels the same he will open up to you like you did him. And from then things will hit off like they did the first time.
2006-09-30 10:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lostpeople 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like typical teen angst. It's like this: guys suck. The second you start talking to another guy or hint your going to the next dance with someone else, no matter how far away it is, he will get possessive and ask you to go with him instead. If it doesn't seem to bother him then you know he doesn't like you as much as you like him and you shouldn't waste your time on him.
2006-09-30 10:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by mix_coke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex chop up up in simple terms decrease than a year in the past now, I nonetheless love her with all my heart even nonetheless it form of feels that she in simple terms would not care at-all, i might prefer to think of otherwise. The smash-up became into stupid, we've been the two chatting on the telephone sooner or later n rapidly, i became into being terrible n suggested seem, we would desire to break up - i think of in all honesty, I did this to work out if she'd combat for me and that wasn't the only considerable reason, i might lost my activity on the time so I felt extraordinarily low in myself and could not administration none of my emotions. for the era of final year, i might regretted what I did and tried not common to paintings issues out together with her back. Baring in recommendations, there became right into a 14 year age-hollow between us. i'm 34 this year and to think of of her now out with countless different fellas ruins me. i've got already served a 5 and a a million/2 detention center sentence in simple terms before the problems we had in the process the early summer season of final year. I in simple terms can not start to reason the hell we'd come into this hassle. slicing an prolonged tale short nonetheless, we've been collectively for 14 months and we'd already had the main appealing, loving and intimate relationship we could ever have. i think of additionally, i became into so in love together with her to the ingredient the place it harm lots. She has now filed for a 5 year restraining order on me even nonetheless it scares me, earlier we had completely chop up, she instructed me she's continually enjoyed me and continually will - now i've got believed this and shop telling myself that she will quickly come again coz all she desires to do is harm me for now and punish me for all of the accessible discomfort of the smash-up that i might brought about her, i prefer her to return back, better than something,i understand a great style of people who hate her because of the fact of my time interior yet i might forgive her if she forgave me because of the fact isn't that what genuine love is all approximately??
2016-10-15 09:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by saleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds to me like he misses you, but maybe not LOVES you ask him to got to the mall or movies alone if he says no it means hes not ready, if you guys already go to the movies or mall by yourself go to a restraunt or something...
2006-09-30 10:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and tell him that you still like him and that you wanna start dating him again.
2006-09-30 10:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋