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I mean, I am not trying to group or be weird or anything, but why is it that all most all guys are after sex? Can anyone be serious and help me?

2006-09-30 10:00:22 · 26 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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All guys are in one way or another after sex. The trick is to find the good ones for whom getting a woman into bed is not the goal in and of itself. There are some good men out there for whom sex is a way to express their love for someone and to be closer to them. Unfortunatly most guys are leacherous humps.

2006-09-30 10:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0 1

They usually are after sex because sociecty's view on sex has changed. It has just became something to do like go to the movies. And most guys think if they are a virgin then they are weird or wrong. They also dont value sex liek most wemon do. Most wemon see it as making love but guys see it as "Gettin some."

Believe it or not, not every guy is a pig like that. There are some that are one woman men and only have sex when they are in love with the girl. They are hard to find but they do exist! Good luck hun!

2006-09-30 17:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by DeLovelyEmma 1 · 0 0

Because it is a basic need, both for guys and girls and no one doubts that. If you see A. Maslow's "pyramid of needs", you will see that sex is considered a basic need, like food, water and some kind of housing.

I believe that yes, (almost) all guys are after sex, more or less. I would like to ask you though if "being after sex" is a bad thing. I think it is not, taking into account that it is a basic need.

Unless your actually wanted to ask "Are all guys ONLY after sex?", which is a different question and I will give a different answer.

There are guys out there who only want sex and other guys who want sex and more (that is, a good relationship, whatever that means for any of us). Even the same guy may ask for different things at different periods of his life.

Man, relationship problems are hard!!! I hope I helped. :)

2006-09-30 17:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Macgyver 1 · 0 0

Yes, all guys are after sex. Sex and power are by far the most important motivating forces for most men. Almost everything most men pursue can on some level be reduced to these two things.

But no, most men are not after sex alone. They want relationships and all the fulfilment a good one brings too. Unless they're already in one, in which case, yes, we're back to sex again.

2006-09-30 17:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by servir tres frais 2 · 0 0

MOST of them are, at least at some point in their life. Typically as they get older and more mature, it becomes a little less toward the top of their list. As they mature, things like compatibility, comfort, being able to hold a conversation with a woman, do become a little more important than sex. Don't get me wrong, I think its always on their minds, they just don't let it show as much.

2006-09-30 17:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by bugoff26 2 · 0 0

I think they are all after sex of course. Your question should have been are they all after just sex. We have some out there that actually want a relationship w/ sex and love both. Some are just dogs looking too get off and thats just it.

2006-09-30 17:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0 0

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2006-09-30 17:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by anna a 1 · 0 0

I'm a guy and I'm not after sex..I guess some have more raging hormones then others..
I think with my brain, not with my Penls
I dont understand why some guys are after sex either..

2006-09-30 17:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 2 · 0 0

Seriously, if you are an adult, a relationship with the opposite sex usually involves sex if it is a romantic relationship. (That's men and WOMEN sweetie). If you are in Jr. High or H.S., then yes, they are looking for sex - it's a status symbol.

2006-09-30 17:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0 0

It's hormonal.
Ignore the catcalls and wolf whistles, someday a good guy will talk to you as a person right at the rare moment he's not seeking sex, and *ding!* you'll hit it off.

2006-09-30 17:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by northernbornsoutherner 6 · 0 0

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