It is beyond me, when, whether I am at a club, restaurant, grocery store, bowling alley-- the ugliest guys, whether they be sloppy fat, too old, tacky, or plain old ugly have the nerve to prefer cute girls. Don't they think we want somebody cute too? You should see them proudly beckon with their fingers for women to come talk to them, as ugly as they are they should speedboat over to a woman, because what woman would willingly come to them? The cute guys are always more shy, sweeter and take a while to get up their courage to come over.
Why are uglier dudes more bold than cute one's? Shouldn't it be the other way around? Then they have the nerve to get mad or question why you are not interested. Are ugly dudes really this dumb that they think someone would want them, or are they just extremely hopeful? What gives people?
2006-09-30 09:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I am not an ugly girl who thinks I'm hot. I don't think guys approach girls who they think are ugly, that is why guys always say "hey look at the hot chick that walked in" and then run over to approach her. And they always brag about the hot girls they approached that night.
I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but let's face it, when you see an "Al Bundy" approaching an "Angelina Jolie" you just have to shake your head and sigh.
2006-09-30 10:10:12 · update #1
im 45 and an attractive women scares the hell out of me and i never bother them . yes i like younger but i never try unless they show im welcome . im not ugly just well used been married and failed and now im in dawn of the dateing thing lol i hate it . i envy those guys who are brave enough to take on you georgious wemon im just not up to task but the old saying is those ugly guys have learned that if you ask 1000 wemon out of your league for a date that at least a few will say yes . why lol who knows but it works im told . great looking guys get beautiful wemon yes but they drag their feet and the ugly talky guys get more wemon simply because they ask more often and with time they dont mind being told get lost lol . so my advice is make a little sign that you can carry that says no on it for those guys you dislike and when you see a great looking guy put it away and jump on him with coversation and good luck.
2006-09-30 10:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your definition of cute is "more shy, sweeter and take a while to get up their courage" so by definiton anybody who is very forward is put into your category of "Ugly", maybe you have cause and effect the wrong way around.
2006-09-30 10:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ben P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some unnatractive guys may just be bold or they may be used to rejection and aren't afraid for it to happen one more time. And just because u may be cute doesn't necessarily mean you ONLY want a cute guy...Some girl actually care about what a guy has to offer in his thoughts and mind and personality...BELIEVE IT OR NOT! you must be young....lol you will learn. Plus some guys may be ugly to you but sexy to another girl. We all have our preferences.
2006-09-30 09:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think the more "unattractive" guys, are the more secure guys.. They aren't affraid of rejection. The attractive guys usually have the most insecurities, and usually don't have to approach females, the females approach them..
2006-09-30 09:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by katy s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating "attractive guys"? It doesn't appear so by the nature of your question. It sounds to me you might do well to re-evaluate your personal attractiveness.
"Beauty" is measured by more than outward appearance. Maybe your inner self makes your attractiveness uglier than you know.
2006-09-30 10:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by JReb_67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know in my experiences i just hate the thought of rejection...maybe (not to sound like im the best thing since sliced bread) but they are just more used to getting shot down, so they can just brush it off easier...
2006-09-30 09:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think they ARE cute just like you seem to think you are.
Maybe they are thinking "Why isn;t this ugly girl I'm trying to hit on giving me any play?"
2006-09-30 09:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by rlw 1 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I think beauty really is "in the eye of the beholder."
2006-09-30 09:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋