The gf and I are at a weird point in the relationship. We have dated for about 5 mos now and it's either got to go to the next level or end. The situation exists, as I see it b/c the closer she gets to me, the more scared she is and more closed up she gets. She keeps alluding to an ugly past but won't tell me **** about it and that frustrates me ridiculously. It's like she wants me to dig just so she can bury herself deeper. Anyways, we decided to spend this weekend alone and talk about things Monday after work (and she calls me this afternoon and we talk for about 20 minutes???). I know I am not perfect but she won't confront me about her issues with me, either. I need her to talk and talk a lot. People keep telling me to be patient, but my patience is running out. Any things I can say so she KNOWS how serious I am that I just want to know her better and I will NEVER judge her? I am frustrated enough that I am afraid of the bluntness that may come across from me.
2006-09-30 09:52:14 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way in my opinion is to be open and honest, basically tell her what you just told us.
2006-09-30 10:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ben P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋