There is this guy i like. In the library at school we were emailing each other and he asked me if i liked him. I said maybe and then yes and he has maybe but wouldnt say yes or no then all of the sudden he was behind me and said yes. He put his arm around me and we talked and stuff. But not much more happened since then and that was like on tuesday. One other person told me that he was joking but i am not sure if i should believe it. I have emailed him and he wont answer me and i dont know why. Today in the library i was on a computer and he came up behind me and starting shaking my chair. does that mean anything? what should i do?? i need everbodys help that i can get with this one. PLEASE help!!
2006-09-30 09:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is too shy to move along with you, and you could give him a helping hand if you want it to work. But i am not saying throw yourself at him. What if he is thinking precicely the same as you, there is only one way for the two of you to find out.
The shaky-chair thing, he is obviously interested in you as at least a friend, so why not arrange to go out together and see what happens?
Guys like girls to be interested in them just as much as girls like to be, you are living in the past if you think that a guy does all the work.
I never had the courage to ask my current girlfriend out, but after about a year she asked me out and it has been the best thing ever, don't miss out on something that can be awesome.
2006-09-30 10:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ben P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up ask him if he wants to go out with u ,u will never know for sure till u ask him..and if he says no that means we was just playing around and if he says yes then that means he was being serious..
Good Luck
2006-09-30 10:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax... it'll happen if destined. dont put more effort into than you have. simply play his game until you find your answer which shouldnt take long and go from there.
Or simply let him know honestly how you feel...
if he lame you out, don't be upset or dismayed but politely move on with what you were doing and continue to be yourself. Do not show him that he has you sweated bullets...lol. or the fact that he lamed you if thats the final result!
2006-09-30 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd quit emailing him. I know it'll be hard, but just stop putting yourself out there for him to do as he chooses with. I'd play it cool, and talk when he talks to you. Guys like a girl that isn't just something they can have. You have to be a little closed off.
2006-09-30 09:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by t.larae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just straight up ask him..
You will never know for sure til you do.
2006-09-30 09:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by rlw 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's interested. Don't rush it. (You'll look needy and he will bolt) Time is the answer. Slow down.
2006-09-30 09:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could
2006-09-30 09:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-09-30 09:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋