My new bf constantly talks about sex 24/7, hes always tryin 2 make out, when I am tryin 2 talk 2 him, he gets sexual with me even when I am angry at him, like hes not taking me seriously, he tells me he loves me all the time, and he is always trying to get me to have sex but im afraid he will leave after he gets it, is he trying to use me or is he just horny but still cares about me
2006-09-30 09:48:29 · 36 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lose him. Doesn't sound like he's interested in anything else.
2006-09-30 09:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is is like when he's not horny. Give him a dirty magazine and tell him to go in the bathroom if thats the only way to get him to calm down. Then see if he is'nt more of the way you'd like him to be. If he goes home kill him.
80% of couples said good sex was the most important thing in the relationship its a matter of does your relationship with him make you feel better or worse about yourself. Sounds to me like you're complaining your bf is attracted to you
2006-09-30 09:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by mix_coke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my b/f does the same thing all the time. I do believe that he is a little of both, and if you are not ready to give into that, he should understand and wait until you are ready. I made my b/f wait over a year, he has not left me. I would tell your b/f that you feel uncomfortable that he does things to you that you do not want him doing, and that you are afraid that he is just in it for that. I would make him wait, if he truly wants to be with you, then he will not care when that time comes
2006-09-30 09:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a man..He THINKS he likes you, but he really just wants to get in your pants and welcomes the challange. It feeds his manly need to be the Alpha male.The very second you give it up to this kind of guy, he'll lose repect for you, and he'll feel your already "Conquered", so he'll be really likely to either cheat on you, or dump you alltogether. (Unless the sex was that good, then he'd keep you.) I'ts a shame that the majority of men are like that, but there are some of us who are not. Hope you find one. Buh-bye, and good luck..Ronijn @}-->--------------
2006-09-30 09:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can find a balance...his fear is, you're just going to leave anyways so he wants all the sex he can get...
trust me...men have a saturation point...
women can keep going...
turn the tables on him and he'll tone it down.
wait til he falls aslepp...tell him you want more...
if he makes it...do it again until he's done...then get him the next nite.
I can make any man say "no - enough is enough".
Once you get him there; you can start doing normal things that couples should do.
2006-09-30 09:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Knightsbane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes....the fact that he's not listening to you and picking up on your reluctance to get intimate is the key here. I don't know how old he is, but age makes a big difference here as well. If you are not ready to play his game, I would let him know that you are not ready for this type of relationship and he needs to stop contacting you until he's ready to respect how you feel. If he treats you with disrespect after you let him know how you feel, appreciate the fact that you knew when to walk away from this.
2006-09-30 09:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by justwondering 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just wants sex.
Take it from someone who's first relationship was a dream, and a good one (which means I have high standards now, the men are in for a fight getting me to date ^_^) - a real boyfriend will:
-Not touch you in public in more than a hug.
-Listen when you're sad and not touch your chest or between your legs.
-Understand when you don't want to do something.
-Try to have a real conversation with you.
See where I'm going?
Sorry, hon. Dump him and find someone better that deserves you.
2006-09-30 09:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on a lot of things...how old is he??..you know younger immature guys have sex up on a pedestal...they think it's the only part of a relationship, while older, more mature guys love sex, they just know it's not the only factor in a relationship..and it depends on how long you've been together...wait a while before having sex...if he can't wait, then yeah, he's just after sex...
2006-09-30 09:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by greengloss0217 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends his age I think. If he is on the younger side, he may just want sex but not sure how to tell you, but I the other hand, he may also really like you. If he is older, (I am generalising here) he is more likely to tell his mind cause he has been hurt in the past from not speaking what he wanted straight up...
2006-09-30 09:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by larney_0000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are awhole lot of other things in a relationship then just sex. Try telling him and if that doesnt work dump him and find someone that really likes(loves) you for you and not just a sextoy.
2006-09-30 09:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by catrhy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds young (high school age?) And at that age there's not much but sex going on up there.Sex cars (nice car to get sex) job (to get $for sex)
Don't worry they grow out of it in20 to 30 years
2006-09-30 09:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋