Why?I quit drinking for 14mon-and 27 days,as of yesterday.Everyone told me when i was an active drinker that "NO"one will ever want to be with me!I fully understand why,i mean i know for a fact,i sure wouldn't want to be with someone that drinks every day.32 M that has been and will "alway"be an alcoholic.Where do i meet sober ladys?Besides AA?
2006-09-30 09:38:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well done for being sober for so long, you should be proud of yourself! love comes when we are least expecting it, so hold on in there, it may be just around the corner!
2006-09-30 09:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by xxx sara xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same places you did when you did drink, except maybe a bar. You can still go to clubs, movies, restaurants etc. When people ask why you're not drinking just tell them that you don't drink. Say you are past it and don't need to, but don't hold it against people who do (unless you do).
Most people won't care, unless they are afraid.
2006-09-30 16:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
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your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-09-30 16:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with meeting a sober lady @ a mtg? That's where me and my boyfriend met! Just check with sponsor first! We've been together over two years now.
BTW, congrats on 14 months.
2006-09-30 23:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been seeing a drinker that is now getting help for that. He met me at work believe it or not. But, if your a church go-er they have dating programs or lol, go to the supermarket, lots of single ladies there trust me one of my best friends met there husband in the deli at walmart.
2006-09-30 16:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by cherokee83pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the online thing but don't stay inside all day set up the e-harmony account then go for a drive, if there is a woman in the area that catches your eye, go talk to her.
2006-09-30 16:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by mix_coke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
church, coffe shops, supermarkets, bus stops, museums malls, parks. When we drink all we hang out in is drinking places and we forget ANY where you go with a smile is a place you can meet some one. If you stay at home you can't meet anyone.
good luck
2006-09-30 16:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniewilliams414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at a bar... (haha)
well it might be hard because you cant automatically tell who drinks and who doesnt. You just have to look around and maybe you will find somebody. And good for you about you being sober!
2006-09-30 16:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, not a bar that's for sure. Try going to church, the grocery store, the library any place that you like to go.
2006-09-30 16:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by poohbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you aren't looking, you will find her. And it won't be in a bar. Good job.
2006-09-30 16:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋