every time i go out with someone they brake it off with in two weeks and i dont know why can some one help me out plz.
2006-09-30 09:34:47 · 22 answers · asked by small_funky_monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh! Because you put out already, of course!
Value yourself a little more, don't make yourself so low rent. Make 'em appreciate what they got.
ps E&OE
2006-09-30 09:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by servir tres frais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're not giving us enough information to correctly answer this question..we don't know you. There are a hundred different reasons. Maybe it's because you don't know t he difference between 'brake' and 'break'...haha..who knows. I mean, are you having sex with them? If so, it's probably just a fling, if not, then maybe they just weren't the right fit for you. It may not be you, but they don't want to waste their time on someone that they know isn't right for them. A good thing to do is ask them...be open and honest..and hopefully they'll let you know..and don't be offended... use what they say to better yourself
2006-09-30 16:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by katyzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you needy? Are you putting too much stress on the relationship? Do you move to have sex too quickly?
Make the guy wait a little, hold off from him a bit. Sometimes girls try too hard and it just ends up scaring me off. Let him work for you a little...then reward his work. If you get everything you want all the time, then you will always want something else...
If he still runs away, lock him in the closet after chopping his balls off and feeding them to him. Tell him, "He better love you...or else."
2006-09-30 16:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just a guy thing.
Apparently they don't view you as a potential long term relationship.
Better to have them break it off now then further down the road, when your even more invested.
Eventually someone will come along that is a perfect fit for you. Be patient.
2006-09-30 16:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey thats normal .guys are taut to love em and leave em . your doing nothing wrong its them . guys like to have fun but when it gets serious oh god i gotta go . i know this is wrong but very true . your dateing the wrong guys here . find a guy who thinks different than others . a guy who loves family children and settleing down isnt a dirty word . these guys your dateing are users and theyer not alone . you wemon have right ideas about life but you dont understand that us guys need to striaghten our minds out before we can seriously commit and many guys never do this . just pick your dates not based on oh god hes sexy but oh god hes so sweet hearted and see if the relationship lasts longer . try makeing guy earn sex or trust and dont give in until hes convinced you hes seriously looking for love here not sex . im hopeless romantic but ive fallen for the wemon version of these men and now i screen my wemon like a office manager but it pays off . youll do fine once you stop going out with losers and learn what dateing really is for .
2006-09-30 16:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two weeks are you telling him you love him? Have you gone to bed with him yet? Are there things you don't do in the bedroom?For me the woman is most often too clingy and smothering. You must give these things time, my guess is you just have'nt found the right one yet.
2006-09-30 16:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by sixfootfour185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm. Sounds like there is something not right about you and relationships or your choice in guys. Try asking a friend that will be hones with you.
2006-09-30 16:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta ask urself that question.There should be something going wrong in ur personality or behaviour that makes guys break it off.One of the most common reasons too,is if u give up fast by having sex with the guys.
2006-09-30 16:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by alfoua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel they should date every girl out there. try breaking off the relationship first and see what they do!
2006-09-30 16:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously are attracted to this type of man...not that thats your fault, it is common in women to be sttracted to one type of man she believes looks like her ideal man, but then he actually is not(looks can be deicieving). but i am just saying, its the type of man you are with...the "i am actually really scared of commitment" guy "i just want to get action" guy...
i say you break the pattern...go for someone who you would not usually go for.. and you may be surprised, by opening new doors you may discover wonderful rooms.
Goodluck, i hope you find the right guy
2006-09-30 16:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by adialidal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they are a lot of chick´s out there and so little time to date them
2006-09-30 16:36:52 · answer #11 · answered by thedeliciousone14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋