2006-09-30 09:30:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
After reading your other questions I know that you're a masochist and enjoy the attention his beatings and violence bring you.
You have no self respect and it doesn't matter what I say until you respect yourself.
2006-09-30 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by answer annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a bad idea. My ex-husband is terribly sexy, but he has a bad temper. He would blame everything that went wrong on me. Point blank if that temper is directed towards you either now or later it is called MENTAL/EMOTIONAL ABUSE! So if you do not want to be abused then stay away from a bad temper. And eventually you will develop a bad temper from just associating with him. Admire his sexiness from afar. There are plenty of sexy men left that do not have tempers. Go find them.
2006-09-30 09:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by TWINS A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want to get out of the relationship. If you're looking for something long-term, you can't let yourself believe that he'll stay "sexy" forever. If you just wanna knock some boots every once in a while, then go ahead, but i still wouldn't get too attached. The last thing anyone needs is someone wtih a bad temper around them constantly. It'll wear on you and you don't want him to lash out at you. BUt it's up to you chica
2006-09-30 09:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by dixieland delight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with a guy who is very sexy but has a bad temper at times. I just ignore him when he gets upset. He has never touched me, because he knows he'd be gone if he did. He'll leave the house if he gets real upset. His mother taught me how to deal with him. He is a very good person otherwise. The funny thing is he gets upset over the dumbest things! It is a tough decision to make for anyone in that type of relationship. But in our situation, the good outweighs the bad. I've learned how to claim him down.
2006-09-30 09:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a matter of time before you become a victim of his rage.I bet he doesn't look so sexy when his face is contorted and spit is flying when he is having one of his fits! Unless you enjoy being on pins and needles I'd say find yourself someone that has more control over their emotions. Life is too short to worry about how someone else may be feeling all the time,or whether you did something wrong that will piss him off. Start to look for someone from the inside out, instead of the outside in...
2006-09-30 10:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Michael A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a HORRible idea. Bad tempers lead to physical and mental abuse. And yes, it CAN happen to you. Also, sexy looks pass, bad tempers don't. Get out while you can.
2006-09-30 09:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!
Bad Temper does not = Sexy!
2006-09-30 09:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No control over his temper is a form of abuse. Find a sexy guy without anger problems.
2006-09-30 09:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love bears everything, so no chance for bad temper towards u, if he really loves u /cares abt u..
No use being only one sided like u alone(continuing to stay with him,loving him for his sexiness or whatsoever).
Needs both sides same.
Talk to him.
If not changed, leave him.
2006-09-30 09:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by ask me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's got a temper and is mean to you, drop him like a hot potato. I don't care if he is Mr America....if he's got a bad temper and has ever even attempted to lift a finger against you...drop him. He isn't worth it. I'd rather be with a guy who is butt ugly and treats me like a queen than a guy who is drop dead gorgeous and abusive.
2006-09-30 09:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by momofericha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its bad, in someways, it depends on how long you have been dating too, If you are very close to him then seek some counceling for him, tell him that there are anger management progrms he can go to, Or if you just met the guy, and just dating him for months or even two years, then tell him you cannot stand his temper and move on
2006-09-30 09:41:29 · answer #11 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋