2006-09-30 09:28:59 · 28 answers · asked by zuzi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont look they turn up when you least expect!
2006-09-30 09:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by HANNAH P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is truly the simplest formula for finding the right one for you. Ready? It's called being honest with yourself. You have to know in your heart of hearts if you can handle an bit of cushion on a person, or a diminishing head of hair or an odd facial tic if it means you get a person who is deeply fulfilling in the most honest, elemental ways you require in a person. Start at the top of a piece of paper. Put down all the things you want in a man. Just randomly write it down as you think it. When you're done, give careful thought to which order these attributes go in on your paper, re-write them alllll in order. Now, assume that the top several are MUSTS. These are the things you know you require in a mate. The several bottom things are things you can truly let slide. These are just not going to be what influences your decisions anymore. The next several things up from that (if you've a long list) should be minor considerations....that is, these should exist in some quantity for the man you want. Maybe not 100% but they should be present. The next several beneath your top attributes are also necessary though perhaps not in as great a totality as the top several.
Often I hear things from people about their ideal mate, what that person would be. But just as often, I don't see anyone doing any major soul-searching to determine their compatibility with the mate their imagination conjures up. The right man will dovetail neatly with your needs, expectations, plans, desires. There will be no dealbreakers. But if you're a homebody, don't insist on wanting someone who is adventurous and exciting.....should you end up with someone like that, you'll have to scramble to keep pace or risk being thrown over for someone who will. It's just not the job of an adventurous, exciting person to makeover the life of someone who isn't. This is just an example, I'm not saying this is you. It just illustrates that compatibility needs considered a little bit more than: he has to have a nice income and great hair, he has to be built, he can't have any annoying habits (fyi, everyone has annoying habits).........and so on.
Open your heart to self-honesty and assessment, then open your eyes to the men all around you. They're not just in bars and banks and Porsches, they're not just in suits or carpenter's tool belts or stylin homes, they're probably alot closer to you than you think.
2006-09-30 16:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by badasslilnici 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey if i knew the answer to your question, i would be a very rich women.............so really when you think about if what is the right man, i don't think their are any perfect men out there, someone who you thought wasn't your type, may turn out to be "Mr right". how do you know........I think that sometimes females have too high of and expectation of what the right man should be like. good luck and hope you find Mr right.
2006-09-30 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to date a lot (not sexually) and get to know them. Getting to know a man and how he is and behaves in all situations takes a lot of time. So between taking time to get to know him and his character will give you the answer as to weather he is good and right for you. It's also important that you have taken the time to become a good, honest, intelligent interesting, moral person so that when you do find the right man, he see's that you are right for him... water seeks it's own level.
2006-09-30 17:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by candeekissez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately that question is only for you too answer as the perfect man for you is in your vision. ''beauty is within the eye off the beholder''. this basically means that no matter how rough, tall, small, fat, thin, hairy etc etc he will in your eyes be perfect. Don't go looking he will come knocking. Fate is a wonderful thing, many things happen for a reason and its if you act upon those moments where you will decifer if it is right or wrong and approach it wisely. I hope you find your man one day!!!
2006-09-30 17:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by June 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-09-30 16:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my husband at work. And he was seriously NOT my type. And sometimes I still think he is not. But I love him and I am so happy that I found him. I remember my work mates all joking with me and saying stuff like 'Oh my God, what do you see in him! Tell me its not true!' But I adore his personality and if we had met in a club or something I probably would never have bothered. You need to meet someone at a place where you get to know their personality and the part of them that you'll really fall in love with forever.
2006-09-30 16:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mountaineer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your asking for trouble asking this question on here..your going attract all sorts of perv's, werdio's..it all depends what you look for in a man i sugest you take up some hobbys were you socialise with men you mite bump into the rite man for you that way good luck
2006-09-30 16:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by rusty red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am extremely sorry, but I am already taken. Keep looking! You never know when and where you'll find Mr Right II !
2006-09-30 16:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is just carry on with what you are doing and when you are not expecting him to come along, he`ll be right there in front of you. So the best thing to do is to stop looking.
2006-09-30 19:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just depends on what kind of person you are. If by right you mean humorous, kind, tender, and great with kids, that would be me... but if you would rather have the quarterback jerk from the football team... keep lookin.
2006-09-30 16:34:44 · answer #11 · answered by mopar-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋