I have a problem. I love my best friend but we are both guys. He doesn't know! He has a girlfriend and I talk to her too. I take care of my friend right now because he has cancer. Do I tell him or keep my love a secret.
2006-09-30 09:23:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you call it a problem? Is it because you know he has a girlfriend and is unavailable? Because he has cancer and should focus on his recovery and you want to add to his stress with something that should be kept to yourself just now.
Why would you tell him if you know why you shouldn't? Don't be selfish. Be his friend and so love him. But in a way he needs right now. You say you take care of him BECAUSE he has cancer???? If you love him as your friend, let him get through this as his friend.
2006-09-30 09:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u tell him..things will rpbably get a little weird between you.. and it will proabably never be the same as you were b4. It may even go tot he point where he doesnt want to be friends with you anymore. Just a possiblity.. but it depends how understanding he is. I seriously doubt that he shares that same type of love for you if he already is dating a female.. but u never know right? and by the way.. does he know ur gay? b/c if he does it would be less shocking but if he dosnet then he will be TOTALLY dumbfounded and stunned. It all depends u know?
2006-09-30 16:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by ♥INTENSENESS♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
woooh...that a sticky situation your in.
I dont think I can help you on this one...because I know that the best thing to do is tell him how you feel about him and hope that he understands....but on the other hand your friendship may not be able to handel such a confession and that may separate you forever. Worst than that is that he is sick...and though he might not know how much he needs you...friends are the most importante on those times...
In your situation....I would keep it a secret and let your "love" remain a friendship
2006-09-30 16:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_freitas6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-30 16:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's great that your taking care of your friend. But as far as telling him that your in love with him...I can't say...That's a hard question to answer..
2006-09-30 16:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am a gay male and it is not that easy for you to tell him you love him. I love my x-bf's brother... well, tell him how you feel and he might get mad but you don't need to keep things to your self cause that may lead to depression. I hope you can do this and have an even greater friendship with him.
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2006-09-30 16:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by slowgo91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg it seems that u have a problem, but dont keep ur feelings inside, youll just regret it later, just tell him that ur gay and see wer it goes from ther (wish i could help more, srry)
2006-09-30 16:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by urmotherwouldapprove♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does the person feel the same way as you do.if not you might get your heart broke because he loves a girl.good luck.
2006-09-30 16:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him if he is a good friend then he will understand that is great that you take care of him.
GOD bless you.
2006-09-30 16:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him!!! whats the worst that can happen? :D
2006-09-30 16:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by sexaymonkey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋