my best friend told me she hated me!!!
2006-09-30 09:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If shes a really good friend, shell get over what ever happened 2 make her mad at you. that happens 2 me all the time. if she continues 2 b mad at you, you could have much better friends than that.
2006-09-30 09:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by zxcvbnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it matters if you were having a fight or something like that. If it was something dorky and stupid and you guys were just joking around then dont even worry! But if she was dead serious... that can't be good. But she might just want some space. Or maybe she was already P.Oed about something else and you just happened to be there as she was letting off steam. I don't think you should be upset though. Just relax and if you really are best buds then she shouldn't and couln't hate you.
2006-09-30 09:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kim"ME" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello beautiful
If you be upset, then she will be happy that has been able to make you upset! be very cool, and tell her that you hate her more than she does. Give her up and never speak with at all. This is the way.
Good luck.
Take good care of yourself. Kiss your beautiful face.
2006-09-30 09:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why she hates you? Try to figure this out first. Regardless of whether she hates you for something serious that you did, such as you stealing her boyfriend or something, or for a misunderstanding, you should talk things over with her and clear your name. Feeling upset is only natural, but it can have deep emotional effects on both of you if you don't resolve this issue with her.
2006-09-30 09:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tony Walls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....never be upset by anyone saying that. Just stand tall coz if someone hates you, they have their own reasons, so get in the depth of the cause and try to sort it out rather than getting upset.
2006-09-30 09:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by touche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in friendship, the word "hate" is something not thrown to the person herself. there must be a reason for her to tell you that. if you are real friends and treat each other as real friends, you must both learn to hate the act and not the person who did the act. if you value her as a friend, ask her why and if she is seriously holding a grudge against you for something that you did, you could apologize for it and keep your friendship. if she hates you for no reason at all, then she's not your best friend.
2006-09-30 09:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of being upset, simply respect their right to an opinion. Aren't there people you don't like? Would you want them to be upset by that?
2006-09-30 09:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i cared about that person enough i would be hurt (like a best friend for example) but as for haters, losers, and jealous bitaches.. i could care less (but it still hurts when u know that SOMEONE hates u) but it really wouldnt bother me as much as soneone you care about hating you <----- that hurts big time.
2006-09-30 09:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♥INTENSENESS♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that, who needs enemies?
2006-09-30 09:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention and stay apart from her. She is not your friend at all.
2006-09-30 09:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by trio3true 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋