My best friend goes braless all the time and likes it. She is really small (32a) Sometimes when she bends over you can see all her boobs. Should I tell her that I can see them, and other people can too? My dad even noticed them and told me that she should wear a different shirt. She is my best friend and I dont want to make her mad.
2006-09-30 08:59:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Hun, don't be so naive .Most likely she does it on purpose. If she is confident enough to go braless, I'm sure that she is aware that her tops are low cut enough or loose enough to get a peep.I do it sometimes when I want to be naughty. When my friends tell me,I thank them and act like I didn't know, but I did. Before you tell her, watch her when she is flashing her goods. If its on purpose you will probably be able to tell if it's on purpose, or she really doesn't know. If you don't think its on purpose, tell her.She will appreciate it.
2006-09-30 11:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can let her known without being rude. Just tell her nicely that when she bends over you can "see" her. See what she says. Maybe she doesn't care? That's her deal then - however, she should really try to respect other people's sensitivities. She doesn't have to wear a bra - but she needs to make sure she isn't flashing people!
2006-09-30 09:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by natureutt78 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
So tell her that unless she wants stretch marks and big blue veins along with every guy who talks to her will be having a conversation with her chest, go ahead and stay braless.
2006-09-30 12:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think she is very aware of the fact that people see her breasts that is why she is going bra less. If she is your friend you can just tell her and she should not be angry with you. It is just your opinion, that doesn't mean she has to start wearing a bra, perhaps tell her your dad made a comment. however, i think she likes the attention and the looks on folks faces when they see her breast.
2006-09-30 09:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, if it makes her mad, then shes not your friend. Tell her that you wanted her to know, cuz others are seeing it too.
2006-10-01 07:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~~ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Telling it in an appropriate way wouldn't make her mad unless she likes other people see everything.
2006-09-30 09:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
maybe if she bends over in front of you you could comment "nice boobs' or something to get her attention and take the conversation from there
Hopefully she will just wear different clothes and not cave into wearing a bra
2006-09-30 09:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by kardea 4 · 6⤊ 3⤋
You might be doing her a favor by telling her, maybe she dosent realize shes giving anyone a FREE show!!
Id tell her!
2006-09-30 09:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
aw well it's her choice if she wants to go bra less but you should tell her to be careful what shirt she wears.I have a small bust also so yeah nobody notices that much unless your shirt falls.Just tell her kindly .
2006-09-30 09:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
i dont see anything wrong with it, but maybe because im a guy. one thing i would suggest is for her to wear shirts that aren't so baggy or low cut. i can't stand women that bend over to pick something up but put their hand to their chest to hold their shirt up...when they are either a: have a tight shirt anyway, or b: have a bra on. its not like you're showing anything off to anyone.
2006-09-30 09:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by wightbringer 2 · 5⤊ 6⤋