My situation is as follows. a month ago I started a computer class and I kinda fell in love with my teacher( he's in his late 20's, I'm 24). At first he didn't give me any signs that he might feel the same. After a while, I think I sensed something from his part, too. But he didn't ask me out or anything. Today I found out that he might not teach to our class again, he was replaced. Now, I have his e-mail address. Do you think I should start communicating w/ him this way, at first asking him whether he'll teach to our class our not? I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not...I really don't know what to do and also I wouldn't want to make a fool of myself. help....
2006-09-30 08:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by pope1882 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. A wise person said that a few centuries ago and it's still true. I suggest that you do communicate with him and ask him about his marital status. Life is too short to beat around the bush. If you are able to find anyone who knows him you may ask that person.
Either way, don't allow what you want to get away. Besides, guys love it when women are forthcoming. Can you imagine the pressure that we are under every time we see a cute girl? Go and get him!!!
Mr. on "delicate matter."
2006-09-30 08:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any harm in dropping him an email, to enquire how he is. He may open up on email instead of face to face, and that way you could find out if he is ie. Married, or has a girlfriend. If so then you would have to back off. If not then nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it.
2006-09-30 15:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him and get in the conversation about relationships and ask if he has a g/f. And if you two seem to hit it off real good ask him if he'd like to go out sometime.
2006-09-30 15:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a mail to him just to say helo, if he replies, then tell him that you have some problems with you classes,then arrange for a date to talk it over,from there do the rest
2006-09-30 15:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teachers are not supposed to mess around with their students. It is unethical.
2006-09-30 15:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well email him. What's the worst that can happen, he doesn't respond?
2006-09-30 15:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by James H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could email him but i think your work will be done automatically as mens are soft at heart
2006-09-30 15:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by druvsiwach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋