2006-09-30 08:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
at some point in time, you will be some A&F type of guy's come dumpster. not because you wronged this guy you're talking about, but because you seem to have your priorities completely out of whack and lack the proper skills you need to avoid being the A&F type of guy's come dumpster.
2006-09-30 08:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you have to be one of the most selfish, self-absorbed women out there to actually ASK something like that. You are asking if it is ok to use a guy you have no interest in for money, leading him along in his hope you'll reciprocate his affection, and then drop him by the wayside once you've gotten what you want.
Think of it this way. How would YOU feel if something like that happened to you? Just for once try thinking in someone else's shoes.
The only problem is that I doubt you'll be able to do that. Most people in the world only care about themselves and what material possessions they can accumulate, despite the obvious that once you die, that's it. Nothing can go with you. Just remember, what goes around comes around. If you can't get these things yourself, don't for f***'s sake use someone who is more generous than you.
2006-09-30 08:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not only improper it is wrong. It's called golddigging, and using someone like that is extremely immoral as well as "improper etiquette." Unless you're freakin' heartless.
2006-09-30 08:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by spacecowboytim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said in your quesition, you "used" him. So, yeah, it's wrong and improper. Not only that, but it's selfish and mean! What's with the "that's hot"? are you trying to be Paris Hilton or something?
2006-09-30 09:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by natureutt78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not improper etiquette. It's mean, cruel and selfish.
2006-09-30 08:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by T_Jania 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats rotten. if i did that i would feel so guilty.its called being a gold digger. later on down that line its calld being a prostitute. think abt the line ur heading down. i mean guys buy me stuff and give me free stuff, but i dont give them falce hope then dump them. i just treat them back when i have the money
2006-09-30 08:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. In Ann Lander's collumn on June 17th, 1986 she said this was okay.
2006-10-04 06:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just plain pathetic, why don't you just purchase the things for yourself, you know what goes around comes around. And you really should not use anyone.
2006-09-30 10:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's like being a whore ..getting paid for it .. doing it for valuables.. same as money so they are really classed as a prostitute ..they are no better then dogs ..
2006-09-30 08:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nawww...if you sleep with him, you can claim that the jewelry and clothes is your payment in lieu of money.
2006-09-30 08:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋