This is just one of so many questions about love that is quite difficult to find an answer for. I hope you know which one seems better, because I don't even know which side should I really take.
2006-09-30 08:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Grifter Heavenspike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah~ This question pops up tons of times in our lives.
I guess it's very much a personal preference? Some people like to feel loved and being treated nicely rather than to make efforts to please others who might not appreciate as much?
But I personally would choose the one I love because I believe in my feelings. Feelings are real, I feel how I feel. I find no meaning in being with someone who loves me, yet I dont feel the same way as much.
It's contradicting. Of course, maybe I choose the one I love, but he doesnt love me as much. I can take it. We cant compare feelings like I love him more or he loves me more. But I really cant stand being with someone I dont love? I guess I just want to be true to myself & my feelings.
Hope I answered your question.
Smiles.
*I presume the one that you love, likes you too, but just not as much? <- referring to your question*
2006-09-30 08:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming each is mutually exclusive, meaning there is no combination of the two, I would have to say choose the one who loves you, and learn to love them back and beat the system!
Throughout the world there are many cultures where marriages are arranged and the couple might meet for the first time at their own wedding! And they often learn to love each other over time.
2006-10-02 23:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by chipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one I love
2006-09-30 15:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by .,;*°CHANANAIS°*;,. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose for what exactly? For someone to be with? Neither, becuz neither would produce a real relationship...
If it came down to something as who's life to save... then I would choose the person that I loved.
2006-09-30 15:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont say if the one u love loves u or not
can u be happy just being loved or do u need to love them back its all up to the person there is no right answer
2006-09-30 15:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by ********** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I HAD to choose, I would choose the one who loved me. Because I could learn to love him if he had good qualities, while a man who didn't love me back would hurt to be with.
I would have waited for a guy who would love me back though.
2006-09-30 15:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely neither one bro, because none of the options is fair to both people. So you have to find someone that "gets" you while you make her "toes curl." That's when you know that both of get your batteries charged though each other. Nothing seeems or feels better.
2006-09-30 15:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Diplomat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone you didn't love? Even is he loved you and treated you great, it wouldn't be fair to him to stay in an unloving relationship. It also goes the other way. I would stay out of both relationships. Theres more fish in the sea.
2006-09-30 15:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing to love someone and be loved, but I don't know who I would choose.
2006-09-30 15:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick question? Who on earth wants to be with somebody they dont love. Go with your heart.
2006-09-30 15:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋