I split up with my ex after a some serious problems in my life. We tried to keep it together for months but i felt cold to her and wouldn't even sleep with her. We talked about this and I knew i loved her. I split up with her and told her I'd be back in 6 months and she was to live her life without me. We did see each other but it was really just friends and not that often. I did sort my self out and had sent her a txt saying i was missing her. I didn't get a reply and thought nothing of it until i bumped into her & new bloke. I get upset and over txts she was trying to explain and ask if we had any chance. I said no but then i started begging her back to the reply of "i love you but you hurt me to much and now i have a wall up". "We have a special connection but maybe in the future". We spoken a bit over the txt but she keeps saying she can't. Ive been a bit over the top in reassuring her and its pushed her away. A quote "for now can we just go out as friends" i'm lost
2006-09-30 08:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You screwed up. She depended on you, and you "left her to live her life without you". Ahhhhhhhhhhhh, OF COURSE she found someone new. Learn and move on.
2006-09-30 08:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some couples are like oil and vinegar, on the salad they look and taste great , but put just the two of them together and they can't stay mixed. You are distant when together, but when apart, you miss each other. Either just be friends,and be happy for each other if one of you should meet someone,or if you aren't comfortable with that, which I"m positive you're not, than it's time to go your seperate ways. It doesn't mean you have to forget the good times or pretend you never met, as those memories are moments of life you want to look back at and have fondness for. Don't be bitter or blaming yourself or her that it didn't work, just let it go on a positive note.
2006-09-30 15:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think it was fair to ask her to put her life on hold, while you sorted yourself out. Why couldnt you have sorted yourself out, and still be together. No use crying about it now, it was your decision, and she moved on. I suggest that you do the same. How will she know that it wont happen again? Maybe your pride is hurt because you have seen her with another bloke. You will get over it.
2006-09-30 15:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question, its all about you, your ex must have been so confused,you told her to live her life without you, and when she did, you didn't like it. You hurt her, and now you have decided you love her and wont her back..........the poor girl wouldn't have known what the heck you where doing,Sounds to me like you really don't know what you wont, and really need to sort yourself out...........but hey good luck and hope that all works out for you in the future.
2006-09-30 15:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the same as you but it could be the opposite. If you really want to know ask her, if you don't want to ask her then it can't be that important. Decide what you want more and do it so that you can get on with your life.
2006-09-30 15:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by mr_rhysoflife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sort your head out and leave her alone for a bit or she will have you for harassment.
2006-09-30 15:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say good bye sucker
2006-09-30 15:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by mrmiketattoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋