What do I do?

Question

I like this girl and she likes me. The problem is that I'm to shy to talk to her. What can I do to be less shy?

She is also a friend. When i do talk to her she is the one mostly talking.

Answer 1

i get that you're shy (i am 2) but if you know she likes you and im assuming she knows you like her then she's probaly waiting foer ypu to make the first move in my opinion you definatly should not have a friend ask her out because if someone did that to me i would say no unless they themselveds ask me it you just look like a cowrd whe n you do that i would say don't just ask her out out of the bkue try talking and flirting a little to become more comfortable around her then when you're ready, go for it! Good Luck!!!!!!

Answer 2

Punkranci, we start losing our shyness when we feel more confident that we have something to say. You talk with her, go learn some things about whatever interests her. If she has cats and is always talking about them just in passing, get online or go to library and learn something about the kinds of felines, their personalities, etc. If she says, "My mother wants me to be a stripper when I grow up, what do you think?" What do you think when I asked that question? Whatever your reaction, whatever you know about the subject (demeaning, bad environment, drugs/alcohol involved, too smart to do that, etc) you immediately give feedback. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks of your opinion. If you plan to be a booker of acts at a strip club then you would probably observe that you two should get together and research what it takes and be a team. Of course you would want to say, "What? With your brains and talent? Are you kidding?" If a girl is being honest then her mother is clearly a bad mother and you need to say so. You get the idea. When you take a stand, know your stuff and have confidence in yourself then you automatically score a bulls eye. That's the secret of live.
So, to be less shy, stop talking about being shy. Ask her a question, answer her question....and you are off and running.
Good luck dude.

Answer 3

you cant become less shy...you just have to be really brave and talk to her--and think about it, a lot of the pressure is already off, because you know she likes you.....so just go make your move. both of you will be really glad that you did!;) good luck!

Answer 4

maybe you could go and see the doctor and maybe get a script of xanax. Just don't take too many or you will forget what you said to her the first time. Plus that is just a temporary fix.

Answer 5

i really dont kno just start out by saying hi to her and each time u see her say a lil more and sooner or later u will have a whole convo

Answer 6

you will be shy no matter what. just say hi. then she will say hi too. then say so how are you and just keep talking. you will be fine

Answer 7

hang out with her in a group atmosphere that way theres less pressure. then you can get to know her better and become more comfortable.. soon youll shed your shell :)

Answer 8

You just have to live in the moment and do it. Forget about everything else and just make your move.

Answer 9

Just tell her! you both will be happy later no and some of your shyness might go away.

Answer 10

HOW ABOUT JUST STOPP THINKING THAT YOU'RE SHY AND FOR ONCE STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU WANT BELIEVE ME YOU'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE IF YOU DON'T TALKT O HER. GIRLS WANT THE GUY THAT THEY LIKE TO BE THE ONE TO GO UP TO THEM SO FORGET ABOUT YOUR SHYNESS IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER.