how should i ask her out ????

Question

ok folks i need some help....this girl work at a store....i am going to talk to her in few days after she gets off from work.......how should i approch her in the parking without making her feel comfertable ???? and how should i ask her out???? can't wait more or someone else's might take the chance cuz she is so damm hot......can't talk to her at her work cuz the girl who works with her is friends with ma ex......any advice ???? i would be very thankful to you guys

ok folks i need some help....this girl work at a store....i am going to talk to her in few days after she gets off from work.......how should i approch her in the parking without making her feel comfertable ???? and how should i ask her out???? can't wait more or someone else's might take the chance cuz she is so damm hot......can't talk to her at her work cuz the girl who works with her is friends with ma ex....i can't talk to her at her work for some reasons....the only place i know for sure i can see her is the parking when she gets off from work...i have to talk to her in the parking cuz i got no other obtion....any advice ???? i would be very thankful to you guys

Answer 1

First of all, never approach any girl to talk for the first time , in a parking lot when she's alone. In this day and age, she is going to be scared to death and think you are stalking her or going to rape her. Your ex is your ex, and what you do is your own business,and it shouldn't matter what your ex thinks, unless you're still hoping to get back with her. Just make small talk over a period of time with her in the store,and don't be like all hot for her and all baby babyin her to start with. Just be kind, make her laugh, joke with her, compliment her( not fine booty, or you are one gorgeous group of curves,,no!) I mean tell her that's a pretty blouse your wearing , that color looks good on you. Or I like the way you laugh, it sounds genuine and friendly, not forced. Or , I notice when I come in , that you have a way with people. You must be a nice girl , because you sure have a great personality. Of course spread these out over several visits, don't go in too often, but just often enough that she don't forget you. When she starts to get that look that she's happy you walked in, say, You know, I haven't eaten out in a nice restaurant in ages, but I feel uncomfortable going out to eat , alone and I thought who would you feel the most comfortable with , and right off I thought of you. So , would you like to go out for dinner,if not tonight then you pick the night. It's on me. If she declines, just say, that's cool, but remember the invitation is still open ,so if some night before closing ,you're thinking of a juicy beef steak with mashed potatoes and gravy, and you see me walk in , just look at me and growl , I'm hungry , let's get us a heap of food! This will at least get her laughing and chances are at closing she gets hungry every day and one of the days when you walk in, listen for that growl. Cause a woman never forgets. But if you get tickets to a concert or there's a movie you've overheard her saying she'd like to see. Why don't you ask her to go see it with you, at a matinee, then it won't be evening and she won't think you're out to bed her down right off the bat like some guys. Show her you can be the man, and don't be in a rush to show her your manhood, if you get my drift. A girl is goin to pay you the most special attention you can imagine, if you've treated her like a lady long before that time arrives. If you're out for just a quick thrill and a notch in your belt, don't bother the girl, cause maybe that's why you have an ex.

Answer 2

Well... I think you need to start out slow. If you haven't talked to her before and are just thinking about going up to her in the parking lot that might creep her out a bit. Don't just come up and ask her out...guys that do that seem desperate and that comes off as stalkerish and weird. Plus...if she's not interested it'll just make things weird at work. Take some time to talk to her and get to know her better...who knows...she might already have a bf. If you do ask her out...just ask her to a movie or something and be confident about it. No girl likes a guy that is nervous.

Answer 3

First off, you don't care what you ex knows or thinks do you? Unless she has something bad to say about you that she will tell this babe.
You just ask her out or ask if you can get her a combo while you are getting yours. You do thoughtful things around her for others and/or for her. Character is what gets to a woman. And never give into time pressure, if some other guy makes contact that's the way is goes. She'll be around. Relax, dude. Relax.

Answer 4

don't approach to her in a parking, if is a sunny day it will be horrible, besides once you are in the parking you just want to get your car en GO HOME. Try to offer her some coffee or something informal before getting involved in a formal date. You will be getting close to her but still giving her some space to feel comfortable in...and See how things work out. If it turns out fine....GO AHEAD AND ASK HER ON A DATE!!!!!! (oh! who cares about your ex...........don't feel tied to her)

Answer 5

first of all your ex's friend is going to find out if the girl says yes to going out with you. however, do not ask her at work because the girl might mention you asked her out and your ex's friend might not be kind in her comments about you (only you know that). i would call her on the phone or casually walk her out to her car. i would not just walk up on her in the park in lot.
good luck!

Answer 6

if you want to be romantic then bring her balloons have a note saying pop the balloons... in one of them say a compliment, your name, #, and say you would like to get to know her... but chat at least once or twice be for you do this...

Also don't worry about her friends and her mom they will find out anyway...sooner or later...

Answer 7

Ask for her phone number first.