I asked a girl out, we went to a nice quiet club, enjoyed our drinks, listened to good music, talked much about ourselves. She realy enjoyed the evening, at least that's how I felt and she also told me that it was a very nice night and that she's looking forward to meeting me again.(she gave me her mobile number) The next day she left for a week out of town to her parents. That day I called her and she sounded a little distracted and in no mood to talk. The third day she wouldn't answer the phone. What should I do now? Maybe she had a busy day or some good reasons not to answer and insisting calling her would annoy her... I realy like her and some good advice will be truely appreciated. Thanks.
2006-09-30 07:57:32 · 16 answers · asked by mish_pl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she went away to see her folks...and she told you that...she is probably annoyed (a little) that you called her when you knew she was visiting with her folks. You only had one date after all. Give her some space....wait till she get's back...then call her again. Apologize for calling her when she was away visiting, but tell her it was because you enjoyed your date so much with her....
Sometimes enthusiasm can come off as "needy".
2006-09-30 08:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she hasn't called you back this whole time then that should be a good indication that she's not interested. Even if she's busy she'd call if she really wanted to. Don't call more than 2-3 times. If she liked you she probably would have mentioned being out of town for a week. Or she would have said when she wanted to see you. If a girl is general with you then that's not usually a good thing. If a girl really likes you she won't shut up. Unless she's really shy. So you have to ask more questions or mention a day to see her again. If she makes up something then she's either busy or just lying. But if she says she can't do anything that day and suggests a different day then that's a good sign. Let this one go. She doesn't seem like she cares about you. Sorry! Better luck next time. :)
2006-09-30 08:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She knows you're interested, so I would probably not call again. "Insisting" on anything is probably not the thing to do right now. If she's been busy, it doesn't take but a moment to say, "I've been really busy, but wanted to let you know I've not forgotten about you. When things settle down, I'll call because I would like for us to go out again." If you called her the day she was preparing to go out of town, the timing was bad and she probably was annoyed. She might of thought it was rude that you called to chit-chat, knowing she was preparing to leave.
She may have a number of reasons for not calling you back, but I wouldn't think any more of it and move on. I know you really like her, but If she were interested she would have called you by now.
2006-09-30 08:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you stated that she went out of town to visit family let her be with her family, wait and see if she calls you when she is back in town. If you do not hear from her within a day or two, call one more time and leave a voicemail if no answer including your phone number and whatever else you have to say.... if then after that she does not return your call... move on she is not interested in you on a relationship level
2006-09-30 08:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by oracle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple of days for her to call back, since you did mention that she sounded distracted. Maybe she had a rough day and she'll call you when she's ready to talk or have the time to talk. If she doesn't call back in a few days, then call her up and take it from that point.
2006-09-30 08:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by cookie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call again, if she doesn't answer, leave a mesage saying " Hi, it's so-and-so, I wanted to call and say hello. It seems you've been very busy lately and I just wanted to touch base. I enjoyed meeting you and would love to see you again. I 'll leave it up to you.. if you'd give me the honor of taking you out again, please give me a call at your convience. I hope to hear from you and if I do not, I wish you all the best".
That's it, friend. You'll know how she feels within the week.
2006-09-30 08:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is out of town to her parents.then allow a day or two after she gets back. make one more attempt. You got nothing to lose.
When I am visiting my parents. My father turns my phone off. If I need to call someone it can only be my children to check on them. A boyfriend or someone I just met . not a chance
2006-09-30 08:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's avoiding you for some reason..maybe she's not over someone else, maybe she's involved with someone else, maybe she just was feelin' you like you were her..I would not call again, she should have your number let her make the next move. Good Luck!
2006-09-30 08:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man if she liked you she would call even if her a#s is out of town. so don't keep your fingers crossed. let her call you and if she does tell her you like her in a intimate way and you would like to get to know her better. then take it from there. if it does not work out then forget her. they are other girls out there who you will soon connect with.
2006-09-30 08:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for sometime and give her a call again . may be she has some family problems .better luck next time
2006-09-30 08:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by golu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋