met a guy...he lives in the same town as me we see each other out & thereis a chemistry he is lovely gorgeous and sincere..we have known each other for a few months & harmlessly flirted...he came round mine after he walked me home after a night out & we had a cup of tea & then he walked home so i dont think he is all in to just sex.Then i saw him out again he only live 2 mins from mine & we got together went back to his & had a really good time he was so lovely &i cant help but adore him..the next day he gave me a lift home but did not ask for my no he did ask if i was out next week...when i got back i realised i had left my purse...he dropped it back through the door...he had to go to work that day and so he was pretty busy.Thing is idont in my heart of heart think he was just after one thing as on a previous occassion he said i was moving to fast & we should go to dinner and get to know each other better..so y did he not leave his no..should i pop a card in his door to ask him out?
2006-09-30 07:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, I would love it if women would just lay all the cards out on the table.
Just tell him what you feel - I think you'll be pleasently surprised with the outcome.
It's the things we don't do in life that we regret, not the things we do!
2006-09-30 07:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by BAZ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would possibly want to correctly be a damsel yet, you aren't any further at a loss for words you're distressed yet, you're bringing it on your self he instructed you that you're shifting too quickly. that's code for again off he suggested you scent large & seem good and requested how're you doing. that's code for it develop into large f*cking you once, yet now you want to flow on if he needed subsequently far you... if he even had to in elementary words f*ck you... he'd have again your handbag face-to-face do not turn your self into the communicate of the pub (any more suitable than you already are) cheer up and get again available and performance some extra good cases he isn't any longer the only for you
2016-12-04 01:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by thorpe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may well be that he just wants to be friends. He may have had troubled relationships in the past and is not looking to become an item once again with anyone. There is nothing to say that a man and a woman have to be a couple to go out and enjoy each others company.
2006-09-30 07:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seemes weird dropping a purse throught the door instead of calling you to let you know he has it , and returning it in your hands his afraid of something . Give it time . Don't let him know that your sweating him so bad or call him and ask him out with no strings attached and offer to pay for the dinner . You never know maybe he has other things on his mind worrying him find out before you fall head over heels with this guy.
2006-09-30 07:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you don't pop a note through his door - it indicates you were outside his house stalking him. If you don't have his phone number or e-mail address, wait till you see him again, and tell him you had a great time last time you were together. Suggest that you should go out to the pub to get to know each other a bit better.
2006-09-30 07:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that you got duped. So, here's the thing. If i like a girl, I want to get to know her... which he did. If it's really soon into the relationship and she gives me the ol' twinkie... i'm not interested anymore.
It's too late for this guy... but listen and listen good... Sex is a sacred thing, if you want to have a chance at a good serious relationship... stop doing it so fast... nobody wants a relationship with someone who will sleep with you that easy... all we want is the sex and a goodbye.
You have to make someone actually be interested in who you are before you have sex...
You show me a girl who won't have sex with me for a month or two... and i'll show you my future wife.
...and I still haven't found what I'm looking for.
2006-09-30 07:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by adrock337 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't do that. If you know where he usually goes for a beer, get there before he's boll cksed and tell him that you really like him and that the two of you really ought to get to know each other much better and pull him away from his mates but make sure you've got some condoms and drag him to the nearest darkish place and bang his brains out.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-30 07:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you are keen, or you may never know. But dont be overkeen and scare him away. I wouldnt pop your number through his door, although i have been tempted to do this in the past with girls i have been with. Just make a point of bumping into him again, and ask when he fancies going out agian. If you do go out again and he dont ask for your number, ask him then if he wants it. xx good luk gal
2006-09-30 07:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. He knows where you live. I hope by now he knows your name, so he can look you up if you are listed. He is probably sensing a little anxiety on your part so is taking it slow to see if you can calm down.
I'll bet he's planning the ideal date to take you on right now. He'll call or knock on your door soon.
2006-09-30 07:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky one he may not want to push it or he wants to go slow for reasons unknown yes pop round leave card no harm in that good luck
2006-09-30 07:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by johnny boy rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋