2006-09-30 07:15:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you 'get back' at your parents for not letting you do something, you're only proving them right, and proving that you're too immature to do whatever you wanted to do.
sorry I know thats not the answer you wanted but its the truth!
2006-09-30 07:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are a teenager because an adult wouldn't ask a question like this. You still live at your parents house and if you are under 18 you are not an adult. Some people will say as long as you live under your parents roof they are still in charge. But I don't agree with that if you are over 18. Even if you don't pay rent. A parent can't tell an adult what to do. But since you are still a teenager, you can't do whatever you want. You still need to listen to your parents because they know a heck of a lot more than you think they do. Respect them and everything they do for you!!! You'll realize how stupid you were when you get older. Trust me. It happens whether or not you like it. Just suck it up for a few more years. If you don't like them telling you what to do then get a job and get your own place. And quit being immature and disrespectful and try to get your parents back. Especially if it's something stupid like not letting you go to the mall. My parents basically where the reason of one of my breaks ups as an older teen and I was furious at them, but it was actually a really good thing that the relationship ended even though I didn't see it then. Your parents do a lot more for you than you understand. They could even help you make decisions that could later save you a lot of pain in the future. You never know. Grow up.
2006-09-30 14:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You walk right up to you parents and thank them for not letting you do something that could get you in trouble or yet worse hurt and that you will in evitably regret later on in life. You hug them and be grateful that they are trying to instill morals, values, and commonsense into your brain that cannot comprehend that making the right decision isn't as easy as making the fun desicion.
2006-09-30 14:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by mahree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the smart answer is they don't.
Look, I'm a parent. "Getting back" at me would only get you more of not doing what you want, and I have a list of chores to torture you with.
Be smart...be grateful they care enough to not let you do everything you want.
Of course, if you're like my daughter, you could always try the "silent treatment". It was always my personal favorite...I loved it when she wouldn't talk to me. It was like a mini vacation.
2006-09-30 14:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you start considering ways to get even with your parents for that you might want to consider they're just looking out for your best interest and some day you might be in their shoes. How would you feel knowing your kid is trying to find ways to get even with you. Be thankful you have parents that are concerned enough to look out for your best interest.
2006-09-30 14:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might wanna thank them for not letting you do some things- before you cuss um out or so sum to make them worry about you wait about to years and see if it makes sence yet and if it doesnt wait two more years, if it doesnt make sence then, then you can get them back-
i got mine back because i was born and i know i wasnt the easiest child to raise, wasnt the worst either but moms is always right wether you know it or not, or know it and dont want to cuz you want to make your own mistakes, just chill out girl, trust ne theres a reason behind it all.
2006-09-30 14:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try since you will be the one to continue to suffer. Show them that you are mature and respect the fact that they are looking our for your best interests. Since I do not know the whole story.......and being a parent.........I am going to vote with them, sweetie. Be a good little girl instead of being a vindictive little snot!
2006-09-30 14:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHAME ON YOU!!! Your parents are your guardians and until your wisdom is greater than theirs... and wisdom is only earned and gotten by living life's experiences and learning the lessons of life... you have to have the respect to acknowledge their care for you. The fact that you are vindictive is a sign that you have much learning in life to do... and that you are immature to want to be vindictive to those who love you enough to keep you safe. You need to apologize to them in your heart and rectify you thinking. GROW UP!!!
2006-09-30 14:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Callie Kitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your parrents said no then there is a reason for it.you dont have to like it,or even agree with thier reasoning but they are here to protect you and love you. you should feel lucky that they care enough to take an interest. how would you feel if you lost one to death. you would wish they were there to tell you no again. be gratfull and forget about your petty revenge.
2006-09-30 14:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont...you let it go and think maybe they didnt let you do something for your own safety.. your parents will always be able to make choices in life they chose to have you and keep you you should thank them for that, some people arent so lucky..
2006-09-30 14:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋