2006-09-30 07:04:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it certainly is not honey! this day and age you have to be open to this kind of honesty because the dating world is very competitive , and we find ourselves wasting alot of time beating around the bush, trying to find out what we are to affraid to ask. just do-it and move on if you dont get the answer you would like. and if you do get the answer you want you can go from there. but remember not to get your expectations up because you will suffer more if you are dissapointed. treat it like a fact finding task. and best of luck to you. i am sure any guy would be lucky to have you. aj
2006-09-30 07:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by lestatsbloodslave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I have been asked this by all sorts over the years, let me tell you we always say yes regardless of what we think. We know that saying no to this question from a woman is the equivalent of decking a bloke, unpleasant and never-forgotten! We like the easy life as I'm sure you know! Your best way of finding out is just to ask him to do something that would be a hundred times easier for you to do yourself. At work the other day a girl rang me at my desk and asked me to come to her office. She is two floors away, but I went immediately. When I got there she asked me to pass her her can of Fanta which was out of her reach at the end of her desk, so I did. I then asked her what she wanted me for and that was it! She wanted me to get her drink for her, nothing more! I have no idea if she was testing her hold over me but yes, I do fancy her! A lot!
2006-09-30 07:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by alfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be offensive to ask if he finds you attractive. He might on the other hand feel awkward or uncomfortable to say he doesn't if he does not find you attractive.
2006-09-30 07:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by bella_estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all offensive. if you want to know anything then you have to ask. it is all in the how you ask though, don't sound like you think your gods gift or your vain, he will be honest i am sure, men usually are in these matters. they know what they like and what they don't like, but remember what is not attractive to one will be to another so don't be disappointed if he says no, you maybe just not his type.
2006-09-30 07:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that everybody should find the right time to ask this question. So know it is not offensive at all!
2006-09-30 07:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rodiak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its honest and at least you'll know where you stand!
He'll probably be a bit surprised at first and if he does he'll probably blush and admit it and if he doesn't he'll probably skirt the issue and blabber for a bit in which case just tell him its ok if he doesn't.
In the end you have your answer either way and you can go from there.
2006-09-30 07:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be obvious if he thinks you are attractive, Give the man a chance to show he's interested.... And if he doesn't - he does not find you attractive. Move on to next!
2006-09-30 07:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by interested_party 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not go ahead ask away, just be careful how you ask or that person might find it offensive.
2006-09-30 07:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we gals sometimes need to know this from time to time and why the hell not ask if they say nothing .. we go through makeup and clothes to look good and of hair every day we need to hear it makes us feel its all worth it ...
2006-09-30 07:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by sassymexo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not offensive. But if you like the guy, just be upfront about it. In my experience, guys really like that.
2006-09-30 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Wizard's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋