what should I do?

Question

Ive been single since I got divorced two years ago.Im certanly not gods gift to women but I feel like im a very good looking guy that takes great care of himself and is very positive.Everyone tells me I should go out with all these differnt types of women and how a personality will go further than looks.I agree in a sense however I like women that are confident in how they look.Should I try women that really dont catch my eye just for their personality?or should I go by instinct and go for what catches my eye first.Im 35yrs ols and I dont want to be alone forever.

Answer 1

I think you need a balance of each. Don't go for a girl if you do not have a physical connection. Yeah, personality is probably the biggest thing but very close behind to that is looks. She might be the greatest and the coolest but if you really must find attraction to avoid 'future' problems. You will run into problems later in you relationship if you do not find yourself physically attracted to your partner and that's not fair to you nor her.

Answer 2

In all of my relationships, I have found that looks do matter, however, personality conquers all. I would go for looks first, then once you get to know the girl, see if she is compatible with you. Make sure she has whatever you find most important in women. There has to be some sort of physical attraction at first.....Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Hey,

I think that one's personality is superior to thier looks.

However I'm 27 and i think that you have to enjoy looking at them before you can go any further.

Doon't worry about it, You'll find somebody that you like sonner or later.

Just cause something didn't work out menas that you now have an opportunity to make something work out.

Future can only look brighter

Answer 4

yes

Answer 5

yes go for it

Answer 6

try a little of both! you never know how you might end up feeling about someone.