2006-09-30 06:47:13 · 43 answers · asked by Maame 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
You don't have to - kick him to the curb!!!!
2006-09-30 06:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by interested_party 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You bury your head in denial and obsess about the little things like cleaning the house and your hobbies. Maybe think about getting something to numb the pain like a drinking problem or food, if these aren't enough then something stronger may be in order. You lie to your friends and family and tell them that you are happy and that your marriage is just fine thank you. You slowly isolate yourself from those you love because you can't bear lying to them all the time. Your hair goes grey, your skin starts to sag and you lose all your self-esteem. From there you either wait for him to leave you or you fall apart and have a serious breakdown before he does...
There is no way to cope with a cheating husband but there are plenty of ways of dealing with a cheating husband. You can confront him and the things that are wrong with your marriage and possibly if you both work hard enough you can fix it. If you can no longer trust him then you must seriously consider leaving him.
There is no easy answer to this. You must know that you are worth more than this. You do not deserve this and you do have the strength to deal with this. Good luck.
2006-09-30 07:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey as long as you've decided to cope, have some fun with it.
Burn dinner (his share) once in a while.
Get a new haircut, work out, look really hot and cultivate some new male friends.
Go out with the girls, or have them over.
Develop a life independent of him - it may come in hand some time.
If he's stupid enough to leave receipts around, don't confront him, just leave the top part with the hotel name somewhere where he'll have to search to find it (but make sure he finds it and wonders if you saw it). If the guy cares about you one bit, he'll be on notice and fix up, otherwise, he could care less.
2006-09-30 07:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by xamayca.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a lawyer and give him his walking papers. If you have proof, get a divorce lawyer and file for divorce. If you give them a second chance you'll be giving him a third, a fourth, ... cheaters don't learn how to stop, just how to cover it up better the next time. If you're worried about the children, don't, they will get over it just like you will. It's better they learn what a healthy marriage is about, than an unhealthy marriage. You want a role model for your kids ,as well as to be a role model for them. If they see you as a weak woman who will put up with anything for her man, then when they grow up, history will repeat itself.
2006-09-30 06:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by mainah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you know he is cheating and you aren't going to accept it. If you would like to shake him up a bit maybe you should suggest that you have an "open" marriage, where both of you can have sex with other people. He may not like the thought of his wife wanting to have a physical relationship with someone else and then you can tell him...well, how do you think I feel...maybe that will turn him around. I don't know.
Good luck!
2006-09-30 06:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce
2006-09-30 06:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DIVORCE the loser, take his money, take his kids, take everything you can. Some men just cant get the hang of masturbation, thats why they cheat, beside, I think men that cant keep their pecker in their pants shut have their nuts cut off, What a Loser this guy is. Dont be scared, There are groups out there that will help you.
2006-09-30 06:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once a strayer always a strayer. You can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear.
Tell him you know, and ask him to stop or you will leave him and he will have to support you and the kids.
2006-09-30 07:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by xenon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't cope with him you tell him you have had enough then get the best divorce lawyer you can afford and take him for every thing you can good luck
2006-09-30 07:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by paulette7618 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you, would you be more unhappy with or without him?
Mine cheated as in a one night stand, i hit him screamed shouted then made him work bloody hard to keep me. We are still together now 5 years later and happy, i will never trust him 100% but i do trust him enough for us to survive.
Most relationships require alot of work to keep them going but after the lows the highs are brilliant and worth it.
2006-09-30 06:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by sophie-star 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do I cope?
Firstly, I don't have a husband.
Secondly, I'm not gay.
Thirdly, who cares if he cheats in his exams?
2006-09-30 07:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by Gobbledygook 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋