Okay, now is it okay if a guy like kinda does something that seems kinda mean but isnt serious. Like i mean he takes something of yours and like might say somthing mean but is just kiding around. I really want to know because i see it all teh time thinking if its okay or not. Like playful type thing. I dont think i wnat to do it anyways cause i want to be a gentlemen. lol
2006-09-30 06:42:11 · 9 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys can mess around and joke but if they take it to far then they are most likely to get told to leave lol.girls can be over sensative and take things the wrong way or to seriosly sometimes so be carefull what you do. GOOD LUCK.
personally i prefer the gentalmen lol
2006-09-30 06:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pagen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not ok there are ways to play around and be playful but taking something of your girl's or saying anything mean to her even in playing is NOT ok. Its ok for men to do that to each other but women are much more sensitive and will most likely take it personally. I sometimes wonder when my b/f says something mean to me only playful like....does he really secretly mean what he said?? He always says no he doesn't but I still can't help but wonder....I dare say it puts a little wedge between our closeness! Don't play with your girl in that way....if you want to be playful do loving things like tickle or tease gently!
2006-09-30 13:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she knows you're joking around it can be cute. but if you say something mean or dont give what ever you took back to her soon enough it can turn into a bad situation. dont do it unless you know the girl because if you dont know her she'll just think you're being mean.
2006-09-30 13:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not to....cuz if u did, u might lose a girlfriend...cuz most likely the girl will be hurt and upset...and maybe even embarrassed.
2006-09-30 13:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda depends on the girl and if the only reoson the guy does it is to take advantage of her
2006-09-30 13:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by nmehra18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean.. i kinda don't like ur question cuz i don't knida understand it and it's like kinda like you know...like kinda stupid.
Go back to elementary school and learn some spelling and grammar!!
2006-09-30 13:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really nice of you to be gentle man but don't you think that maybe she's kinda hurt, try asking her
2006-09-30 13:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by mgelise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if he is playing a joke on you!
2006-09-30 13:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do not do it. it's not nice.
2006-09-30 13:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋