You know this guy and you also know he likes you but at first site you were not suddenly attracted and like omg i like him! Part of your heart is saying oh yes you know you want to like him, you know you should just give in. But the other part of your heart is saying no you don't like him, you know you don't want to accept this. And it's like there's this battle inside of you. HOw do you know which side to take?
Just some history: I knew this guy many years ago and likedhim. Then he left for another county and i had not seen him since now. I've been seeing him for about a month at a meeting. He has given me the idea that he likes me. It is obvious i don't even have to explain..many of you have already read my other questions which explain.
2006-09-30 06:27:56 · 5 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, Your story sounds like so many others, but still different of course. I do a lot of ministering on the side, just happens. Here's some things to think about. Could you be afraid of loving him and perhaps when you knew him before, he showed signs of being afraid to committ? And reverse the question to yourself. I've done this to myself for years and I think about it until I get honest with myself and get some answers to my questions from whoever I was dating at the time. Ask key questions like, Have you ever been afraid to fall in love, really? You know him best so communicate with him, be honest. Sorry to be so vague. I hope it works out for you. Most people just ignore the important issues in a relationship in the beginning only to have issues later. Thanks for your question.
2006-09-30 06:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Red! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION YOU CANT CHOSE WHICH ONE OMG! just make a list of facts that would be better you know whats good about liking him and whats bad about liking him which ever one has more chose or just find someone else you'll like even more
2006-09-30 13:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Im sorry if i hurt you♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey let ur feelings guide u let nature take its course see where things end up. Who knows he might just be that special someone
2006-09-30 13:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to think that's stupid try and feel. let your emotions guide you
2006-09-30 13:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by mgelise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as you like.
2006-09-30 13:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋