You know how a lot of girls say it's not about the size but how to "work it" or "use his thing"? Well, this is not a question about siezes or whatever, but how do you ladies expect him to work it and use his tool?
2006-09-30 06:26:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please the lady before yourself :)
2006-09-30 06:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell can't this guy ask a question and like this and get a decent answer from you people? Is it really so wrong that he has questions about what he should be doing? I guess all of you idiots were instinctively born with all of this knowledge and never had to learn any of it right?
Don't pay any attention to any of the negativity you get here. People in general are assholes.
What you need to do is get ahold some kind of book that will tell all different kinds of ways please women. If you are uncomfortable with buying one from a book store, buy it online. Trust me, you get much better answers than anyone will give you here. If you wanted answers more from a direct women perspective, read some Cosmo. Plenty of useful information there. You may even learn a bit about how women think.
2006-09-30 06:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that every woman is turned on differently. DO NOT assume that what turned you last girlfriend on, will be the same for every woman.
Practise excellent hygiene and good grooming.
Read some how to books, and watch quality pornos, especially girl on girl, the women touch each other the way they like to be touched. Women need a mood to be set, soft lighting, sexy music, and foreplay! Women need time to get turned on, dont rush her.
Most important ASK your girlfriend what she likes, and really listen.
2006-09-30 06:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud your viginity mate! as your question can only be from either a person with a very limited amount of experiance or none at all! if you have none then you will figure your own question out in time if you have lots then your ego maybe the biggest thing you have to worry about!
2006-09-30 06:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by sicilyuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is to be concerned about whether his lady is being turned on and satisfied. But not TOO concerned that he can't make it happen for himself. Lots of foreplay really helps with women. They need TLC, because with men it's all physical, but with women, it's romantic & emotional. With most women, you can't treat her like crap & ignore her all day, then expect her to be all hot at night. Little hugs & kisses all day long will make it happen.
2006-09-30 06:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he must be a good listener and then follows an act of 15 or maybe 20 minutes. He must also follow up with a show of affection than jus sleeping afterwards...
2006-09-30 06:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by KeenKumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be creative, have plenty of endurance, be there for her and not your self, build experince, dont go over the line, be pacient, concentrate in pleasuring her not only your self, the only pleasure you should get is from knowing you are pleasuring her, and what ever you do, dont be a beast from the start, let her get enough trust on you for her to unleash her fantasies on you. Then my friend you'll be a winner, well not really but it'll guarantee you more sex with her.
2006-09-30 06:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be good in bed a man has to do about 1200 different things and none of it has to do with size, how long it is or how you make it long or what you do with it. All of that is aftermath.
2006-09-30 06:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman.. to be good in bed in not just one thing. Theres so much involved. But in a nutshell I would say to listen to a womans body language. IF she is just laying there, trying something else. If she is moving around and responding (possibly making noise) that's always a good thing. And if oral sex is not your thing.. then you've gotta change that. Women love it just as much as men! Good luck.
2006-09-30 06:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mel and Ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't just hump a chick like a bull moose...find out what she likes, what feels good, where it feels good...does she like her clit stimulated while you're inside her? what position feels good for her? if she has vaginal orgasms, make sure you are hitting her "spot" inside...ask her to guide you...
...just as she should ask you what you like, what feels good, and should look for you to let her know when she's doing things you really like, or don't care for...
Communication is important "in bed" too...
2006-09-30 06:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not all about the penis.. if a guy takes his time and pleases a woman first then she will please him in return... he should no how to work it if he is with the right person, if you are with a mature woman she will verbally tell you what she likes.. alot of woman do not acheive orgasm's through penetration they achieve it orally, so take your time their is not such thing as a bad lover only a bad partner.. the chemestry must be their..
2006-09-30 06:32:02 · answer #11 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋