I dated this sweet guy for a short time but then he ended it saying he was "busy". He was my first boyfriend, and my first kiss, all at age 20. I'm really picky but he seemed so great I gave him a chance. It was a beautiful and innocent relationhship (it never went past kissing). But after he ended it he would still say hi to me on msn, but he has stopped doing that. I finally decided to block and delete him on msn, and I'm trying to forget that I even met him for the sake of my own sanity. The problem is that I still have dreams about him. In some dreams I just see his face but in other dreams: I pinched his butt once, or saw him kissing another girl, or I saw him when I was vacationing with my friends. The relationship ended 8 months ago but I still see him in my dreams, WHY???
2006-09-30 06:20:23 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still have feelings and thoughts are hard to extinguish....it has not been so long ago that this relationship ended.....maybe he is having second thoughts too......if it is meant to be...time will tell.....you are not that experienced with a lot of past relationships so this seemed perfect and you are fantasizing to get you through the time to the next encounter with another.
Good Luck and I admire your taking it slowly.....
2006-09-30 06:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sammyleggs222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably still have alot of strong feelings for the guy. Maybe love him. I'm can't the feelings will never go away, but they will fade in time, if you don't get back together again. Love hurst sometimes. Personally, I'd rather have had the chance to love. To live a life without love is not a choice for me. It feels so much better than not having the chance to love someone.
2006-09-30 13:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to dream about anyone and everything that you have encountered in your life that had an impact or left an impression on you, and there is no time limit to these dreams. i myself dream about people, places, and things from DECADES ago, and most likely always will. It just IS, and nothing to put any more stock into than what is is....just DREAMING, and nothing you should ever feel you need to ACT upon in any way!.
2006-09-30 13:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're luucky that your dreams of him are fond memories. I still have dreams of my ex and they are nightmares of a broken nose, being strangled, getting yelled at or thrown around the house, being insulted and belittled, namecalling, forced sex......things nightmares are truly made of. Cherish your dreams and your memories. And enjoy them. At least you're not waking up in a cold sweat and screaming for help.
2006-09-30 13:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called LOVE my dear! But sad it is because he cut you off...Remember it will hurt him more sooner or later. You need to have some dignity, keep your head up and move on.
It is nothing wrong of having dreams about him, it will go away once you meet someone else..
2006-09-30 13:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jax4all 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u still like him im still friends with mmy first kiss very calose friendsssss not past making out though some times....u perobally will never forget your first lkiss unless u were drunk
2006-09-30 13:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an easy one. u gave your needs a face. u r lonely and he was like the prince charming. realize that its not him u r dreaming about, its the feeling that he gave u.
2006-09-30 13:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by seasquirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still see him in your dreams is because you are still thinking of him, you need to change your thoughts, and when he comes in your mind think of other things, you have him still in your subconscious mind. only you can work that, You need to forget him.
2006-09-30 13:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love him.
maybe you do still like him and you want to go out with him.
if that's the case, then id put him back on msn!!
good luck!!
2006-09-30 13:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz you keep on thinking about him. thats normal and will eventually be out of your system after some time. just move on gal. ;)
2006-09-30 13:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Markin Gomez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋