My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me, instead of giveing her space I begged her to take me back and pushed and pushed her further away. Now she will not speak to me at all.
2006-09-30 06:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her space ... she'll come back if it was meant to be, but because you pushed you showed her a side of you she may not like ... just keep it cool for awhile ... and mend your heart.
2006-09-30 06:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begging will drive her away. You have to give it time - most importantly for yourself to re-evaluate the relationship. Think about where you both went wrong. Give her the space she needs right now and then contact her with a clear head and try to regain the trust.
She'll enjoy you if she knows that you aren't pressuring her to go back. Give her what she wants and then talk to her about why things went pear-shaped. If you can both talk through things, then you might get back together, but only if you can be friends first!
2006-09-30 13:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by diamante_sheeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont beg, date around. If she does not want to be around you then forget about it, there are LOTS of girls out there, seriously. Start acting like you dont give a s**t. Remember, if she liked you at one point, others will. Its tough at first, but based on my experience, you will be better off dating around. Use the internet, its no longer for the desperate, it is the best way to find someone who you will mesh well with, almost scientific. Cut off all contact with the ex. Why beg when you ould have another girl want to be with you?
2006-09-30 13:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by flagmagnets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, have I heard that before. If you figure it out, I will buy the blueprint.
Make sure you know that it is her and not the fear of being alone we all have. Get laid, keep it real low key, and then ask yourself again.
2006-09-30 13:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by gettingbetteratit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to come back to you she will, you can't force it.
2006-09-30 13:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋