Ok, so I started talking to this girl last Friday and I started to really like her. I really wanted to ask her to homecoming, but at first I was too nervous, but I ended up doing it anyway on Thursday. I asked her "Hey, do you wanna go to homecoming together?" She replied "Sure...can we go as friends?" I said, "Oh sure, of course." But now I don't know what to do. The only other times I've had a date to homecoming was with my then girlfriend, so I don't know how I should act since I guess she doesn't like me back and we're going to homecoming together. What do I do?
2006-09-30 06:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how long you have to go until homecoming. I really think that your best choice is to find another date. Imagine this: "The other couples are dancing and embracing and kissing and you get to look around and see this as your "date" chats and dances with her friends and maybe either some other guys, which she would think is ok because you are just there as "friends." She may even dance with you every now and then, but all in all, it is not going to be what you want and she is NOT going to get there and suddenly feel all romantic. If there is time, do yourself a favor and find another date. Don't worry about her. She can go as friends with anyone. If there isn't enough time, then you may want to just consider yourself without a date and do what you would do under those circumstances. Would you go if you had no date at all? If yes, then go and be prepared to find people to dance with. If not, then save yourself the trouble and opt out.
Why are you women telling this guy to try to turn his homecoming "date" into something more when you all know FULL WELL that if you were the girl he was talking about, if you were interested in more than just a friendship, you wouldn't have made the homecoming a friend thing to begin with?
2006-09-30 06:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to homecoming as friends and see if she's someone you really want to date, if it goes well ask her on a date at the end of the event.
2006-09-30 13:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to have fun, that's all, if you show are how fun you can be, then she may come to like you. Don't put any pressure on her, from that point. after the homecoming, ask one of her friends on a date, when she finds out, just say, oh, we are (Just friends) maybe she will get jelious and want to date you then.
2006-09-30 13:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
definetly go with her as friends [its better then nothing at all] if you play your cards rite by the end of homecoming she mite be starting to like you. seriously i never liked this guy at all until he asked me to dance a couple times at homecoming nd now i kinda have a thing fer him... so yea just try to keep her from dancing with to many other guys.
2006-09-30 13:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her you'd just go as friends. So just be friends. Many great, lasting relationships start out as being friends first. Don't make any moves, and somehow, subtley, find out if she has a boyfriend already. Good luck.
2006-09-30 13:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont try to have sex with her. this isnt a problem at all
2006-09-30 13:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋