how do you live with someone who has epilepsy?

Answer 1

Hi.My husband has epilepsy.

Don't treat that person differently.He/she is just like any of us.

Be vigilant when you are around him.Just in case has a fit make sure doesn't get hurt.Don't get stressed.Be relaxed.In case of having a fit don't crowd him.Give him space and put him in rest position(on a side,one hand bellow de head to give support).

Sometimes they might seem to have recovered but they are not as they seem to be lost.They don't remember what happen.

Sometimes they might hold you tight,want to walk away,etc.They are not aware of their behaviour.

Once they are fully recovered,they should now what happen.Make a note of when/where/for how long and the behaviour of the fit.This information is very useful to the doctor.

Tiredness,to much stress,an emotional shock can trigger a seizure.Should not drive and have alcoholic drinks.Be vigilant if go to water(beach,swimming,any aqua sport,etc)

For more information check:

www.epilepsynse.org.uk

They have loads of leaflets.Very useful ones.

Answer 2

I understand that you may have concerns but epilepsy can happen to anyone at anytime and there are many types and not all involve seizures. You obviously love this person, so your off to a great start.

There are very good medications to control seizures now and minimise any impact on daily life. Infact with the right medication, it can be etremely well controlled.

Have a read at this website it has a section on relationships.

http://www.epilepsy.org.uk/info/index.html

Make sure any stuff you read on epilepsy is from a registered organisation as there are some other sites that can be very misleading.

Your own GP will be able to discuss anything you wish to be clarified. There are videos and leaflets that can be acquired from your local health board or surgery.

The person with epilepsy can have a full and productive life. Like any relationship they just require your love and support. The best thing you can do to help is educate yourself about the condition and try not to treat it as a disease.

All the best.

Source : I have epilepsy myself (Tonic-clonic)

Answer 3

The same way you live with someone without epilepsy. Treat them no differently otherwise you will make them feel stigmatised. A person suffering with epilepsy can live a fulfilled life especially if it is well controlled.As the person comes to terms with their epilepsy they may recognise an onset of a seizure and notice a taste or smell, this is called an aura. At first if a seizure occurs others will be scared, this is normal. Ensure the person is as comfortable as possible and that they are unlikely to bash themselves off furniture etc whilst convulsing, and do not insert anything into their mouth. Persevere with hospital and GP visits until the seizures are as well controlled as possible, also enquire about surgery. With certain types of epilepsy this may be an option. Try to accept it and learn to live with it then the sufferer may also follow suit.

Answer 4

Hi you live with them like any normal person, my brother has epilepsy. As there are different types my brother has the full seasures.He has to take tablets to control it but now and again he had a fit. It is quite scary if you witness a loved one having a fit as it happens so quick. The best thing to do is remain calm and get them in the recovery position if you can and make sure the dont swallow there tongue, Talk them round if they appear not to be responding and stay with them. They may have no recolection of what happend. other than that they live a healthy life. But make sure they dont lock the bathroom door, as you will need to get to them if they have a fit, Also dont let them drink anything with sweeterners in or even eat anything with sweeteners in as it can trigger it. If its the first time you have to deal with a family member who has epilepsy they tell you what to do.Just try no to worry and make sure they take there medication properly.It will become second nature.

Answer 5

I'm epileptic and i tell everyone. the reason for that is i have petite Mal seizures and full seizures when I'm not having a full seizure i can look like I'm in a trance i sound drunk and can not concentrate at all. Ive been Muppet and have got myself run over all sorts of scrapes life is for living and we epileptics like to be treated normally and I'm sure any embarrassment is usually on the side of the non epileptic unfortunately my medication isn't working although the g.p still insists i take 9 a day (and I'm called crazy)still carry on just do as you are doing and keep asking questions knowledge is a great thing so this is a good question

Answer 6

If they have a siezure put them in the recovery position and afterwards tell them where they are and what happened. It is annoying when you come round after a fit and people don't realise you remember nothing and want them to tell you what the hell happened! It can also affect memory in other ways and you can forget a lot of stuff - that can be advantage though! lol

Answer 7

Just treat them normally but when they have a fit, look after them and keep an eye on them. I remember when my Gran had epilepsy, we had to keep an eye on her all the time. Me and my mum ended up living with her because she lived on her own.

Answer 8

No but I have worked with some people who have.

It can be controlled well with the right medication

Answer 9

try to join support group!

Answer 10

dont know but if you hear lots of splashing while they are in the bath throw your dirty laundry in.