I break up with my bf yesterday. Actually i'm not too sad to hear that, but i am still curious about what he's talking about. "i will always love you but i must to forget my memory with you. Thank you for being in my life until 5 months. I will always love you. Don't worry about me." he said like that. But, his close friend ask me that he decided to not have a gilfriend anymore. . . .
This is something that must to know what happen about him? Does he love me very much? If yes, why he said that to me? And why he decided to not have a girlfriend anymore?
2006-09-30 05:34:05 · 6 answers · asked by Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two just broke up. Both of you still have some sort of feelings for the other I'm sure, but my advice to you is to let him go and leave him alone. The more that you talk to him, the harder it will be for him to find someone else and move on with that person. Chances are, the two of you won't be able to be "just friends", even after he says he's over you. He WILL have a girlfriend again, but obviously you were an important person to him, so it's going to take some time. Leave him be, and let him heal his wounds. The more you talk to him and check on him, the more he's going to think that there's a chance for the two of you to be together. Just let it go, and leave it alone.
2006-09-30 06:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you broke up with him does not mean you are not human. If you cared there will always be a part of you that worries. If you based you relationship on the right things (not sex) and really were friends then as friends you should be concerned. To be honest I never wished ill on any of my ex girlfriends and some are friends today - but each situation is unique and different. Do what you think is best and do not worry about what others say or think.
2006-09-30 05:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understood he's the one that broke up with you because he decided not to have a girlfriend anymore, right ? How come you didn't ask why he's breaking up with you ? did he break up with you in a letter ? ( if he did that would be messed up ). Either way you should just move on. When he said he's going to love you forever maybe he was talking about that emotional attachment that will always be there.
2006-09-30 06:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by ?heartthrob? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds fickled which is a nice way of saying he's not interested in being involved with you anymore. And I don't know how old is, but I see you're 18 and I don't want to be patronizing but a young man/woman has difficulty enough deciding on what classes to take or what job to pursue, let alone being in a long term relationship. This may not mean much, but your a beautiful young lady and I'd say have fun and be safe. Good luck.
2006-09-30 05:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him, it's not your business anymore. If you keep going back into his life, then he's going to think you still want to be with him.
2006-09-30 05:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you broke his heart but he will have a g/f again dont worry move on
2006-09-30 05:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋