2006-09-30 05:33:47 · 34 answers · asked by akki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wat ever be the situation......sucide is not the right solution......
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.Make every day count.
Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, donot attempt to resolve it. Kindly put it in the SFGTD (something for God to do) box. All situations will be resolved, but in My time, not yours
Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold onto it by worrying about it. Instead, focus on all the wonderful things that are present in your life now.
2006-09-30 05:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by kashish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that's no longer your in elementary words option, even as you would possibly want to imagine so now you'll see that in time you'll heal. the right of a relationship is very unhappy particularly even as it appeared so ideal. I examine this lately from Jackie Collins and that's totally authentic ' I wish there develop right into a speedy way {to fix a damaged heart} yet there is not any longer. It takes time, tears, anger and remorseful about-till steadily, you come back through the different area a better individual. A damaged heart hurts. once you pay interest heavily to songs about it, you quickly understand you aren't any further on my own. The soreness subsides once a sparkling love comes alongside...' So do not do some thing stupid, all of us go through heartbreak and that's poor yet in time you'll locate yet another and also you're nevertheless so youthful so there is various time!! in the recommend time i imagine you should work out a counsellor. There are for sure underlying complications in case you sense suicidal over this. You made him your existence and also you cant do this. you want self assurance and to be your individual individual with or without a significant different.
2016-12-04 01:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on stop righ there... No suicide is never they way out. It wont make the things that are bothering you any better you hear me. It will only make ur family and friends and everyone who loves you cry and hurt alot. Tell me more.. What is the situation why do u feel this is the only way you can slove it. Give us a lil more informiation and maybe we can direct you. Have you thought about calling your local sucide line. They do have one. Someone is there 24/7 to help you. Talk with you. But plz plz dont' go that route. Promise you wont make the things better. You have a long life ahead of you. And things can only get better sweetie. Don't u ever give up. U show the world u are strong and u r a survier and u will make it through whatever is bothering you.
2006-09-30 05:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YO! there are better things in life man always think about the good things in your life and f**k what anyone else has to say YOU r in control of your life don't let anyone tell you different drop them downlows and pick up tha highs highs go on holiday join something that makes you happy find a new gf/bf get a new hobby you might say theres nothing left but theres always someting left whatever tha problem and if you still feel like that contact that frank number 0800 917 8765. Or email frank@talktofrank.com.
Big respect props man and you will be posting answers next time you r on line PEACE!!!!!
P.S LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST DON'T LET LIFE LIVE YOU
2006-09-30 05:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committing Suicide over something that could have been avoided is the absolute cowards way out I have learnt. just be grateful that you are alive as many out there are fighting for their lives day in day just to spend a few precious moments more with their loved ones and there is you willing to throw it all way.
Suicide is a cry for help. try talking to someone you don't know as you Will find it easier to talk about things and once you have uplifted all your worries and qualms off your chest it will make you realise that your problems were not so dramatic as they seemed.
Just understand one thing, its not yourself that you will be destroying but all your family and friends will be burdened with guilt for the rest off their lives because off your thoughtless actions.
I hope that from this mesage you will seriously consider talking to soemone. You may not realsie but people out there do care, just because they don't express their feelings and emotions it does not mean they don't.
So hold your head up high and go get them and show them what your made off!!!
2006-09-30 10:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by June 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, nothing is ever that bad that it warrants taking your own life - or anyone else's for that matter.
We all go through crap times in our lives, and whether it is money, job, relationship, health or family, there is always a better way - although it does not feel like that for your right now.
Call one of the freephone helplines like the Samaritans ( not sure if you are in the UK, or what age you are. If you are under 18, then you could call childline and talk through your problems with them. ) I have done some fundraising for childline in the past, and I have spend a couple of hours up at their office reading through some of the letters they received from people who could see no future, but after talking to a counsellor, things didn't seem so bad.
Listen, I cannot tell you what to do or not do, but from some of the stuff I heard up at Childline, people do bounce back from truly aweful circumstances and go on to live fulfiling lives.
Please, please, give the talking thing a go.
2006-09-30 05:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a cowards way out. Ring the Samaritans and they will try and help you. Think of what you are going to put your family and friends through if you decide to go through with this and what if you fail, are you going to try again or maybe you could damage yourself in the process to such a degree that you will be living life as a cabbage and don't say it won't happen because it can and does have serious effects if you pull through. You have to really think is my situation really that bad and is there anything I can do that can change it. Please ring the Samaritans they are there for you.
2006-09-30 05:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A king was defeated and driven off from his country. Sadly, the king consulted an astrologer who gave him a small piece of paper with something scribbled on it. Without any enthusiasm. the king took the paper and put it inside his breast pocket without reading. After sometime, he remembered about it and read what was written: :"This situation will change". The king got a new spirit, gathered more men, built a strong army, and fought a war with his enemy and got back his country. One day when he was riding on an elephant, he was feeling very proud about his success. At that time, something was pricking his chest. He found that it was caused by the protruding piece of paper kept inside his pocket. When he was about to remove and throw it off, he read the message: "This situation will change". The mellowed down king retained that piece of paper and advice for ever and ever.
I tell you, your present situation will change and you will remember this chinrasu. Cheer up!
2006-09-30 05:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Hobby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a personal thing.Many years ago i chose not to.I chose to fight my way up and out.Its not been an easy journey and i know my demons only too well.But now i have friends who are closer to me than my siblings ever were and are ever likely to be.
I am happy with my choice.
I had a cousin in a similar situation to me.He was a very brave man who took a different choice.I will not condemn him but i do miss him.
Suicide is a personal choice.
Who will you miss?
2006-09-30 12:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by greyfoxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who actually committed suicide, and they didnt mention it to anyone they just got on and did it, people who post things on the internet like this are either faking it or looking for attention, you said in your question you didnt have any other option, you obviousley dont believe this or you wouldnt have bothered writing anything to us. all ive got to say to you is if you do it your a coward and whoever you leave behind will Never forgive you. If you have any love for anyone think of them not yourself.
2006-09-30 05:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋