Ok, I'm dating someone. He's the same age as me. We're only in middle school. During the summers he goes to his grandpa's farm and we talk on email. We played truth or dare. I asked him if he would kiss me and he said yes. He asked me that back and under peer pressure i said yes too. But I don't think I could...I don't know how to...and I'm scared to... And I like him, but I don't know if I should continue dating him, i broke up with him but then we got back together...I don't know what I should do...Also, I really wanna go on a date with him, but everytime we've tried to set something up he can't make it...I trust him that it's not cuz he doesn't want to...but still...HELP! What should I do?
2006-09-30 05:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Brito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, we have been best friends for about 2 years and we've known each other since kindergarten. and It was a dare, i mean i was dared to ask him out and i did expecting a no since we were just good friends...but that changed a lil after he said yes.
2006-09-30 06:07:29 · update #1
im in 7th grade. i had my first boyfriend in 6th grade. in the middle of the semester. he asked me out the 2nd day of school, before i knew him so i went out with him when he asked me again later. wasnt serious AT ALL! we acted just like friends like we had been for a semester. so we broke up and everything stayed the same. now i dont have a boyfriend. but if ur REALLY good friends dont ruin that unless u REALLY like him. hes back in the 6th grade, again. we still see eachother, sometimes though. we dont know if ur ready, but u do.
2006-10-02 16:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, you shouldn't go out with this guy or kiss him or anything just because of peer pressure. If you date him, date him because YOU want to, not because your friends think you should. It sounds to me that you like this guy and you want to date him, but you aren't ready to get into the kissing thing. I'm pretty sure that he likes you, but it's a bit suspicious if he can't make it any time you try to set a date up. If he never can make a date, then I can't be too sure that he feels that way about you.
Also, you're just in middle school. There's plenty of time for kissing later in life. Don't rush things if it doesn't feel right to you. You should sit down and talk to him about what's been going on. If he really likes you then he will respect your decision. You should also talk to him about what's been going on with the dates. If you never tell each other anything then you'll never be close.
A note: When you're dating, don't do what everyone says you should be doing. Giving in to peer pressure is letting the school control your relationship with this boy. Don't let them do that. It's yours and his relationship, not theirs.
Good luck!
2006-09-30 13:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mia C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your parents about dating? They know you better than anyone and will be your best guide. (Not to mention you will need their permission to date!)
As for your opening question: you already have a boyfriend and it sounds like you are seeing each other. This does not mean you two are going to get married so relax a little. Your parents can help here as well, I am certain they know whats been going on with you two.
Now about kissing: you know how to kiss you have probably been kissing since you were born. Kissing a guy is no different. Unless you mean French kissing which is easy too. Just try it you will learn how easy enough. We all go through these same things.
2006-09-30 12:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all...CHILL!!! I dated in middle school too. First of all don't be so nervous...a kiss is simple and beautiful. Set up a date that you both will have fun on. Most likely a good date would be on the weekend when you're out of school. Breaking up with him cause you're scared is not good...cause you don't need to be scared...relax and let nature take it's course. Of course you can kiss him it's simple. Here's directions Lean in put your hand on his face and gently touch your lips with his...and just get into it. most importantly just let go of your worries...you both like each other...and the only time when you should be worried is if he tries to sleep with you...then back him off. LOl. Have fun on your date and please rate. :-) (hehe that rhymed)
2006-09-30 12:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow. You are still young and have plenty of time to date. Don't let peer pressure make your decisions. If you feel ready to kiss him, then kiss him but not a second before. If he tries to kiss you and you're not ready, be honest. Talk to him about why he keeps canceling dates, is he not allowed to date? He may be just as afraid as you are.
2006-09-30 12:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you guys are making each other nervous and is causing relationship to suffer. just calm down and talk to each other communication it the key. the whole point of dating or having a bf or gf is get know that person to see if you could be with that person in the long run. how can you get to know some one if you cant tell each other the truth
2006-09-30 12:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are asking the question "am I ready for a BF" then you probably arn't
and as for the guy wait until High School and then reconsider dating
2006-09-30 12:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide out in the barn and find some nice hay to sit on and talk .. then give him a kiss on the cheek .. he will blush like crazy and be yours forever ! Good Luck! :)
2006-09-30 12:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just enjoy his company and quit worrying about the b/f, g/f stuff. It's not important, trust me. It's better to just enjoy being with each other and develop a deep friendship and appreciation for each other's company.
2006-09-30 13:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your ready, you will know. Tell him you just want to be friends & hang out. Don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do. If he keeps pressuring you & your not interested, just tell him that you don't want to see him anymore & he'll get the hint. If he likes you, he will respect you for how you feel.
2006-09-30 12:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by yellow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋